Sure we broke the law today but how serious would it be if we had been caught?

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DH and I have a fairly active sex life, usually have sex around 3 times a week although lately it has been more often. When we were younger (46 and 42 now) we were more adventurous, lots of dressing up, toys and DH used to love filming me which I'm not into anymore. He's quite an exhibitionist and I suppose I am too.

Whenever we go to the cinema he loves to touch me and the last few times we've gone we've ended up masturbating each other and we've both came. I should add at this point that it's usually at least a certificate 15 film so there are no young kids around. We also tend to go to the early afternoon shows which aren't so busy do I'm not sitting next to anyone at the time.

I can't deny that I get really turned on but have worried recently about the prospect of being caught and the police being involved. We both work with vulnerable groups and have been disclosure checked for our jobs so any criminal charge of a sexual nature would be very serious. DH isn't worried but I am.

We don't openly touch one another so that it's obvious. No flashing at strangers 😀

I don't think you are disgusting but you are right to be concerned. Prob best to keep it all indoors unless you want to get into heaps of trouble.

My son works in a cinema, he's had to clean up after people like you. And there is cctv in the cinema. Or is that even more exciting? Actually, no, reported.

And I'm with msrisotto. I don't want to be an unwilling participant in your danger wank.

I was in a cinema last week where that had CCTV screens in the foyer flicking through each of the theatres - they had night vision cameras so you could see each audience really clearly.

If you need to behave like this, then do it in a proper adult cinema, not a cinema where there could be 15/16 year olds sat in the same room while you and DH jizz in a corner

A couple of cinemas near me have got 'night vision' CCTV in each screen - they have the monitors on display in the box office presumably as a warning to patrons that they are being recorded.

So if someone made a complaint, they could have CCTV footage of you.

Can't you go to a sex cinema if you're so determined to wank each other off during films? Should you be working with vulnerable groups if you can't control yourselves in inappropriate situations?

Yak. OP, no. Restrain yourselves.

Disclaimer: I've never done this with my partner and I accept other people's assertions that it is against the law

But: I don't get the level of disgust being shown here. And I can't really see why a couple who indulge in this behaviour with each other are automatically inappropriate people to be working with vulnerable groups. It is not as if they are going to do what they do at work or with the people they work with.

But then I guess I may not be the normal here either because I totally get the concept of the thrill of doing something like this in a public place. A long time ago, when my libido was extremely high, I masturbated to orgasm in public places. Not where anyone could see me, but not in the privacy of my home.

I would sack you after reporting you to a LADO, vile behaviour.

Well electric, that's why you don't understand the disgust. Because you're doing similar yourself

gross - get a room

Well I'm never sitting on the back few rows again!

Oh get a room!

Electric- it's not that dark in cinemas these days, so someone WILL see them ( that's the point of the thrill) it's not fair to involve other people when they're just off to see a film and eat some pop corn!

Thanks for sharing

Similar yes, but not the same.

I am not going to go into details, but imagine being alone in the great outdoors. Clothes fully on.

Sorry if it disgusts you. And I agree it would be awful for children to see something inappropriate, but they wouldn't have done with me. I can see OP is on dodger ground re children seeing, and yes, I can see it upsets people, but I can't see why it makes OP unsuitable to do her job.

Ugh
Also it may be a 15+ what about younger kids that go in anyway??

If you were caught and cautioned etc your work could be informed and you could lose your job. With that on your record I imagine it would be incredibly difficult to gain employment elsewhere especially working with vulnerable people. Apart from anything else this should be enough to stop you doing it again.

Can't you go to a swinger's club, if you really want to indulge your exhibitionist kink?

Is it really worth losing your jobs and ending up with a criminal record for the sake of a few cheap thrills?

Electric, you honestly can't see what's wrong?
OP knows it's against the law, knows the police could get involved, knows police involvement could cost them both their jobs - because proven sex pests shouldn't work with vulnerable people - but you don't see why it is unacceptable?

Ewwww....and you work with vulnerable people and don't get that this is wrong?

And, not saying it makes OP right, but if the film is a 15, surely it is wrong for a 12 year old to be in the cinema? I am amazed how many people blithely say they would let their underage children see a film that has been judged inappropriate for their age.

Trip trap...

Can't you just, like, I dunno, control yourselves? FFS.

"Usually at least a 15"

Not always

And it's rank

All it takes it's someone wandering past to go to the loo to see it all

just.......

umm.......

urgh!,