to be ridiculously excited to have just booked tickets for a swinging club for NYE party?

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First time without kids on NYE in 7 years and excited!!!

I don't think I'd get over it if no one wanted to shag DH.

I think it would cause me to look at him differently, and re-evaluate our relationship.

To know that I wasn't just taking someone else's leavings, but everyone else's leavings.

I think the worst thing about a swinger's club apart from the whole concept would be that there was someone there that you knew and even worse, if it was someone like your really creepy boss.

I don't think I'd get over it if no one wanted to shag DH.

interesting, I would rather that than everyone shags him, and ignores me no???

no better way to see the NYE in than some hard-core pounding anal from a sweaty stranger I say

Hmmmm, nah, I can't think of anything worse tbh, but each to their own.

Yes YABU.

Your DC will be so proud when they find out what their parents like to do in their spare time.

Pmsl at the peripheral conversation re. wanting confirmation your DH is hot by him getting lots of action.

I always quite liked the idea if a sex party but DP is so bloody vanilla!! If I took him to one he would lie in the corner whimpering lol

I think some on here are being really negative and a bit rude!

Just because it may not be everyone's cup of tea, the OP is excited!

Don't rain on her parade.

Have fun and good luck!

Good for you, OP. I hope you enjoy.

Been interested to the idea since I saw Love by Gaspar Noé this summer....have fun OP!

YABU.

Grim.

Have fun, if that's what does it for you

BarbaraofSeville agreed. Have to travel to far flung regions of UK. Hence why it's only an occasional thing and why I'm looking forward to it. If creepy boss there I would leave run a mile.

When I said often it's in the context of half our visits to date.

Quorn why would her DC ever need to know?!

I suspect our NYE will be the same as the last ten or so - crashed out in front of the TV, DH snorting himself awake at midnight for a kiss

I can't believe you have to book tickets to go to a swingers club?!?

I'm assuming these aren't tickets that you order on Ticketmaster?

In my head I always think that a swingers club would be full of beautiful, sexy people all with lithe bodies all toned and tanned

In reality it's always pale, middle aged uglies with paunchy pot bellies and excessive body hair

Hope you have fun OP. I shall also be undressed (in my Pyjamas) and shall swing by my kitchen for a glass of wine - then writhe around on my sofa getting comfy before heading to bed alone at around 10pm. I can't imagine even going out for the evening these days, too noisy and expensive and late, let alone a swinging party, enjoy yourselves.

No it's not, but I can't help thinking it's full of pervs. The whole thing makes me shudder. I am very British mind.

I wouldn't judge anyone for doing it, I couldn't care less, but it does fall into the 'dogging' category for me

Was this not how Tommy Sheridan ex MSP got rumbled? He took a columnist from News of the World along with him for a delectable evening at a swingers club in Swinton.

The prospect of ever bumping into anyone remotely like Tommy Sheridan at a swingers club is enough to kill my libido for life.

Each to their own. And yes no doubt I will get called a prude by swingers but I think its really sleazy and nasty, if I was unhappy with my sex life when I was with a partner I would talk to them not have sex with other random strangers, cant see how that helps!

Swinging isn't immoral, guys

Well I think that all depends on peoples opinions, attitudes and values etc towards relationships and commitment I guess.

velourvoyageur just watched the film. Enjoyed it. The club scene was a bit more glamorous than the reality but not far off. Too many clothes for starter. However his behaviour was not on. I have never seen an argument, jealous behaviour or nastiness. People opt it or out, behind closed doors should they prefer and the ladies absolutely set the pace and boundaries. Every club has No means No as their mantra.

No drunkenness (yes tipsy), no pissed blokes fighting and squaring up to each other, no pools of vomit, everyone dressed smartly and always a nice buffet too! Bring your own booze too!

GoApeShit & PenfoldMagoo thank you. Not many people's cup of tea but I'm looking forward to the night out.

I dunno Felicia, I'm certainly not suggesting the OP sits them down and tells them...

I just think that one of the most important things we can give our children is a good example of how a happy, healthy relationship should be. To me that means their mum & dad loving and respecting each other above all others - not going to swingers parties.

Clearly this is not the thread for me. But it was in AIBU so the OP is clearly open to a bashing (ooh er!)