to be ridiculously excited to have just booked tickets for a swinging club for NYE party?

[goodcompany2]

First time without kids on NYE in 7 years and excited!!!

so Elendon would it be on your mind maybe after a few years of having a kids free NYE

sounds like you would be easily persuaded

Really? Beyond tacky. STD for NYE. At least you're both agreed on your core values. Faithfulness in the bin I suppose. What is exciting or noble about this ?

Fucking hell it would be like 3rd year pe all over again

Read all thread with interest. Hope you have a good time goodcompany .

sad at having to admit to self that should I ever indulge I would deffo be in the 0-1 category

Afternoon all! (Is it hot in here?) We're going to move this over to the Sex topic in a moment at the OP's request.

NYE celebrations are supposed to be exciting and noble? Why did nobody tell me!?

I'm not sure I've ever celebrated NY nobly - unless the time i was a designated driver counts?

Enthusiasm

I'm having a child free NYE night out for the first time in years.

I may cancel!

A buffet?! I'm in .

Seriously? Do people really stand round munching mini bhajis and making polite chit chat in between bouts of shagging?

Do people really think so little of themselves and their partner they want to shag a stranger?? Personally I think the whole thread is a wind up to get responses. I'd stick to the Chinese and a DVD, call me old fashioned!!!

eurgh..

For me it is not about potential jealousy. It simply seems very sad and sleazy.
And I have a very good sex life without having to "spice" it up. I always assume that people who do stuff like this don't have a very good sex life, and find sex with their partner boring at times.

Sparklingbrook Mon 07-Dec-15 14:34:41
If you get this moved to the Sex Topic you might find some people who will be very excited for you and want to know all about it.

LOLOLOL

advert for Salted Caramel Cream Liqueur no longer seems tempting

Elendon 10 years oh that will be a wild one

mine is not childfree so will have no exciting stories to tell

Why are so many saying that STD's are inevitable? Fear and ignorance?

I have never heard MNetters say - don't have sex with a new boyfriend or ONS because you will get an STI. They say, be safe, be consensual and get tested regularly. Why would we behave any differently?

LittleBeautyBelle is faithful same as monogamous? Don't think so. I don't lie, cheat, deceive, behave disrespectfully and neither does he.

Your choices are yours, not better; mine are different, not worse.

these parties are often huge affairs held in nice clubs with swimming pools, saunas, and jacuzzis, there is usually a bar and a dance floor then several play rooms and a shed load of private rooms. people mill around having a drink and a chat with like minded people and if there is a mutual attraction / agreement then they can choose to go up to a private room. Or a couple may choose to ask to join in with the action in a group room. all very polite and nice, no obligations watch only or join in. many people make really good friends at such things. They are not all sleazy and a mix of average and beautiful people go. Have a great evening Op, is it in the midlands?

If you were to bend down to retrieve your dropped sausage roll, would you end up with another sausage to contend with at the other end?

Or a couple may choose to ask to join in with the action in a group room. all very polite and nice

all sounds so frightfully British

WIND IT IN OP

looks disgusted at self

Fair play OP! Have fun!

Nothing sleazy about having sex with strangers

nothing

StepAwayFromTheEcclesCakes south west. although plans to go somewhere are definite I'm waiting to see if BF is happy with my choice of club or whether to go to midlands. Funny how some see this as trolling. We have made a few friends along the way but don't tend to get too close as the potential for problems may arise. So far we've had nothing but positive experiences but we did a lot of talking and boundary setting.

cleaty I understand why you may think that but the opposite is true. If our sex life wasn't right then involving others in it would cause us grief. It's supposed to be a bit of fun, nothing more.