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Derpthroat

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Toohotcats · 08/07/2015 06:48

I must have the worlds most sensitive throat and gag at the slightest hint of anything touching it. But I've really been wanting to do this especially since oh mentioned one of his exes could do it. Do you think it's really possible for anyone to do it perfectly without gagging once??? Does anyone have any tips ? Or is it a case of you either can do it or you can't? X

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hesterton · 08/07/2015 06:54

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AnyFucker · 08/07/2015 06:56

time until Eekaman rocks up....

3....

2...

I'll start a card.

Lucy90 · 08/07/2015 08:53

Why would he tell you about his ex being able to do something you struggle with? Seems a bit odd to me

MabelSideswipe · 08/07/2015 09:12

Why do you want to do it? What pleasure would it give you?

EhricLovesTheBhrothers · 08/07/2015 09:15

Why would you? The gag reflex is there for a reason. If you don't like it don't do it.

Skeppers · 08/07/2015 09:15

Ha ha, just wanted to come on here and say that the typo in the thread title made me chuckle...

derpthroat

SoljaBonita · 08/07/2015 09:31

derp derp

missqwerty · 08/07/2015 10:22

Why is he telling you about something his ex did sexually, especially as you struggle with it. Now your comparing yourself and feeling inadequate, talk about a blow to the self esteem.

Tell him your ex could last hours and was ready to go again and again. See how he feels! No honestly don't go down that route, but maybe a word with him about been discreet about his past is needed. It sounds like he's trying to make you jealous

Lucy90 · 08/07/2015 10:27

Agree with qwerty.
How do you know his ex could? Is he saying this to pressure you into it?

EhricLovesTheBhrothers · 08/07/2015 11:16

Actually I don't think many people can do it at all. If you see any porn (I don't recommend it) they are always gagging and choking

AnyFucker · 08/07/2015 11:28

I recommend you tell him your ex had a 12 inch cock

see how he likes them apples

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Toohotcats · 08/07/2015 11:45

Agh I only just noticed the typo! Derpthroat sounds a little like an infection ..
It came up in conversation once, we had been on hook up sites before we met each other and to be honest lots of people on sites like that claim to be able to do various crazy sexual acts without issues.. And I asked if he'd ever had this done - he said yes but by an ex. I guess it played in my mind cos I can guess which ex this would have been! And yeah jealousy comes into it slightly.
It came up again last night - so to speak - because I tried and gagged again. Although he was trying to "push" far into my throat/mouth.
Sigh... I love sex, but can't stand the "pressure" isn't there enough pressure in other parts of life?

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AnyFucker · 08/07/2015 11:57

stop caving to the pressure then and simply do only the stuff you really want to do....that you get something out of

EhricLovesTheBhrothers · 08/07/2015 11:57

There shouldn't be pressure to perform. Jesus woman just tell him it's not happening and don't try it again! I can't think of anything worse

OrangeMochaFrappucino · 08/07/2015 12:03

Where is the pressure coming from? Is he pressuring you or is it pressure you're putting on yourself to be sexually adventurous and accomplished? I ask because I can honestly say I feel no pressure to do anything sexually or to be a certain way or do particular things when it comes to sex. Maybe because my husband has never put any pressure on me, maybe because neither one of us watches porn or has been on any hook up sites so I haven't got a picture on my head of how someone 'should' perform sexually? Personally, the thought of shoving anything down my throat sounds unpleasant and I can't see the appeal for either partner in that situation so I don't understand why you want to do it particularly as you haven't enjoyed trying it? If he's putting the pressure on, he sounds like an idiot, if you're pressuring yourself to do something you don't enjoy then I'm wondering why?

TinyManticore · 08/07/2015 12:07

I don't even get why it's meant to do anything for the bloke anyway. Why would shoving it down someone's throat be a positive thing? He should consider himself lucky anyone's going near it in the first place.

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Toohotcats · 08/07/2015 12:12

It's (mostly, I think) me putting the pressure on myself. Because of the hook ups he had previous and the fact he was a big porn fan before we got together too.
I don't know what the solution is though, I love him and he loves me and says he has no issues with anything I say I "can't" do. It's totally my fault that I pushed him into telling me that he had actually experienced deep throat (and the same for squirting - wouldn't surprise me if his mates thought he was great for getting these 2 things that all guys seem to dream about)
Sometimes I do feel like less of a person.
If I left, I'd probably walk into something very similar if not worse.
If I stayed is have these things circling in my mind for the rest if my life (or until oh dies at least)
Sorry that was a bit morbid.
The other option is I leave, stay single forever .. Have occasional hook ups and join the can't beat em join em club and indulge myself in pornos whenever I need to get off..
Are these really my choices?????

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Tiredemma · 08/07/2015 12:14

Why would you need to stay single forever?

Not every bloke is a pushy knobhead.

Tiredemma · 08/07/2015 12:14

wouldn't surprise me if his mates thought he was great for getting these 2 things that all guys seem to dream about

how old is he??? 17??????

EhricLovesTheBhrothers · 08/07/2015 12:15

You sound like you need counselling to work on your low self esteem

Tequilashotfor1 · 08/07/2015 12:18

derpthoat

Tequilashotfor1 · 08/07/2015 12:22

Just read upthread. I'd be so sad if my dd1 felt the need to go on shag sites. Or worrying about shoving some ones cock so far down her throat it makes her choke.

Really hope this is a wind up

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Toohotcats · 08/07/2015 12:24

It's not a wind up.
The hook up sites were obviously before we got together.

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GatoradeMeBitch · 08/07/2015 12:30

Just stop! You don't want to do it, and it's not something any loving partner would ask for.

have you seen deepthroat in porn? Gagging, choking, crying, vomiting. Push a cucumber down his throat and see how sexy he finds that.

Tequilashotfor1 · 08/07/2015 12:36

op you really need to work on your self esteem.

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