Hi Op, I'm guessing you're reasonably new to MN? I am a 24/7, in a very loving, long term relationship. Hopefully you'll get more people from similar situations respond on the Sex thread. Personally it's not really something I would post about on MN in detail but you can find some good forums else where dependant on your submissive outlook.
Feel free to pm me.
Christina, guessing the op was looking to chat about her relationship on an open forum relationship board with people in a similar situation? Or should those of us with kink be banished/hidden in case it offends the vanilla folk? ;)