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Head refuses to reward Year 11’s with a July Prom? Any ideas?

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Mom69 · 16/05/2021 18:30

My DC is in Year 11 and is nearly finished 4 weeks of GCSE exam papers - sometimes with 4 papers/day! The Head has decided not to reward them with with their Prom at the end of July! Parents have offered to organise it, and despite numerous emails the Head has said ‘she has nothing further to say on the matter’. She’s even done a u-turn and will no longer give them a last exam-free day of school together and is escorting them off the premises by 11.45am. I am SO upset for her year group, even last year’s cohort had a final day together! I’m not sure where to turn to escalate it? Any ideas? 😡☹️

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Loshad · 21/06/2021 14:19

In England? Assume it is outside completely.

libbytrois · 21/06/2021 14:33

Yes in England, all outside, but was scheduled to happen early July. Makes me so cross when I see football shenanigans etc.

mumofthree22 · 21/06/2021 15:17

@Loshad yes we are in England and DC has his prom this Friday still going ahead. It's in an outside barn in a field.

libbytrois · 21/06/2021 15:50

Wow, so many proms still happening! Any dancing?

mumofthree22 · 21/06/2021 16:56

@libbytrois there is a DJ at my DCs prom

libbytrois · 21/06/2021 17:01

I'm seriously confused as to why some have been cancelled and some are going ahead.

Neversaygoodbye · 22/06/2021 11:05

I guess it depends on the venue & whether they feel they can comply with the current Covid rules. DD prom is due just a few days before our new "freedom day" gutted as the hotel have understandably cancelled. School have suggested they hold it on school grounds, hoping this goes ahead as they deserve something positive to look forward to.

libbytrois · 22/06/2021 11:22

@Neversaygoodbye

I guess it depends on the venue & whether they feel they can comply with the current Covid rules. DD prom is due just a few days before our new "freedom day" gutted as the hotel have understandably cancelled. School have suggested they hold it on school grounds, hoping this goes ahead as they deserve something positive to look forward to.
The prom was due to happen on school grounds in a marquee but was cancelled nevertheless.
Backofbeyond50 · 23/06/2021 01:42

OP Just remember last year year 11s had 2 days notice of their final days. Many weren't in due to self isolating.
No Prom obviously or leavers assembly at all so I don't think they were better off.

exLtEveDallas · 23/06/2021 06:10

DDs prom was meant to be next weekend. It was cancelled 2 weeks ago (the day after we collected her dress Sad).

2 days later, following Snapchat and Instagram conversations between some of the kids 2 parents got together and decided to plan their own.

They started a FB page for the parents of the [school name] year 11 leavers which was advertised initially on the town’s FB page, then word of mouth. They set up an email and asked parents to email them with the name of their child if they were interested in going.

They toured 2 venues and secured one for a prom at the start of August. They locked the FB page and posted the names of all those who had signed up, asking for DMs for those who had been missed.

Payment (only slightly more than the school one) was requested by bank transfer to a bank account set up for the event and last night it was confirmed that everyone who had requested a place had one (originally it was going to have to be ‘names out of a hat’ as the venue was slightly smaller, in the end the venue was able to accommodate the same number).

Parent volunteers are doing much of the organisation and set-up, from cleaners to photographers to entertainment and so on. People have pulled together and it is a sight to behold.

It can be done and I am indebted to these parents who went for it - DD was gutted when original prom was cancelled and is now over the moon (and tbh, the new one promises to be better than the original!)

libbytrois · 23/06/2021 09:43

@exLtEveDallas

DDs prom was meant to be next weekend. It was cancelled 2 weeks ago (the day after we collected her dress Sad).

2 days later, following Snapchat and Instagram conversations between some of the kids 2 parents got together and decided to plan their own.

They started a FB page for the parents of the [school name] year 11 leavers which was advertised initially on the town’s FB page, then word of mouth. They set up an email and asked parents to email them with the name of their child if they were interested in going.

They toured 2 venues and secured one for a prom at the start of August. They locked the FB page and posted the names of all those who had signed up, asking for DMs for those who had been missed.

Payment (only slightly more than the school one) was requested by bank transfer to a bank account set up for the event and last night it was confirmed that everyone who had requested a place had one (originally it was going to have to be ‘names out of a hat’ as the venue was slightly smaller, in the end the venue was able to accommodate the same number).

Parent volunteers are doing much of the organisation and set-up, from cleaners to photographers to entertainment and so on. People have pulled together and it is a sight to behold.

It can be done and I am indebted to these parents who went for it - DD was gutted when original prom was cancelled and is now over the moon (and tbh, the new one promises to be better than the original!)

That's great, so glad they will get a chance to celebrate!
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