Has anyone read "The Farmer's Bride"? I was trying to explain it to DS. Has the girl been raped previously? Has the farmer already raped her, and contemplating doing it again at the end? Is she a lesbian or just had a traumatic early experience with a man, possibly not the farmer at all? Maybe she submitted to sex, didn't like it and doesn't want to do it again, but the farmer wants to have regular sex and expects children.
That was a fun evening trying to help 15 year old DS understand that poem!