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Boarding school suggestions for bright (but not very motivated) girl

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foreverintraining · 10/01/2015 11:26

We are looking at 13+ (or 14+) boarding school options for DD. She is an avid reader who reads practically anything with words on it, from classic novels to maths mysteries to our parenting handbooks. While she is definitely bright, her grades do not reflect that except for the subjects she enjoys.

She has a lot of energy but not sporty because she's unfortunately rather uncoordinated like me. Our friends comment that she is confident, an independent thinker and will be happy anywhere because of her easy-going temperament.

Right now, she's in a top school in Hong Kong with a lot of very driven kids or kids with very driven parents and her confidence is slowly being eroded because of her grades. While she has a handful of good friends, a lot of kids cannot understand her quirkiness, sense of humour and non-conformist attitude, as a result she also feels a little out of place. DD is also a non-sequential visual learner which makes learning in a traditional big class environment a little challenging.

We (incl. DD) would like to find a boarding school that is nurturing, but academically strong with teaching staff who are able to encourage and stretch (and push if necessary) her to her fullest potential. DD specifically says that she wants peers who are willing to help each other, both in school work and in growing up. A good community service programme will be a bonus. We'd prefer a school that offers IB or Pre-U in the sixth form.

The schools we are considering are:

CLC
Downe House
Sherbourne for girls (but concerned about the distance)
Oundle (will it be too big? Plus co-ed...)
Christ's Hospital (absolutely love the ethos)

Would really appreciate any feedback/suggestions. Thank you!

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Emo76 · 18/01/2015 09:21

Have you considered bedales?

foreverintraining · 18/01/2015 13:02

Emo76, we did but it's perhaps a little too free-spirited for DD who does need a bit of a push.

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Emo76 · 18/01/2015 20:51

In my experience Bedales is good at giving a push, but in a very community type way and the children there end up buying in to that ethos of trust (to get work done). It's very outdoorsy and non conformist, and I think nurturing. It might be worth another look or a visit if possible. Good luck to your daughter wherever you choose!

handbagaddiction · 18/01/2015 23:44

One more to add into the mix - Surrey / Hampshire borders - that I don;t think has been on the list so far - Lords Wandworth in Odiham??

I have friends who have children there. Full, flexi and day offered. Co-ed too. Very sporty.

Givemeabreakimtryingmybest · 20/01/2015 13:11

Can I throw Roedean into the mix please? I think it ticks a lot of your boxes.

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