And that’s your right, because you are ‘entitled’ to it, and I don’t think you should be stopped from accessing it. Thus I don’t think we should means test it.
We are/were also middle earners. And the first two children were born pre Covid, pre cost of living crisis etc. We didn’t buy the best of brands because we also were not ‘daft’ enough. But we bought better quality bits because we could at that time and because we wanted them.
But as middle earners, we are now being entirely screwed over just like you. We now also have a daughter with ASD who costs a lot of money in resources and lost earnings to support her (we had never claimed anything for her because we didn't need to before now). It’s because of this that we did take the baby box this time. Not because we are destitute, but because our family would genuinely benefit from and use the items. So would yours, so that’s not wasted.
But I’ve known SO many well off people who got the box and would never dream of putting their child in any of the clothes, or the blanket, and who would never use that towel over the much fluffier softer ones they bought from the White Company.
The contents are stated on the form you fill out to apply for one. So they know what’s in it, and they know whether they really need or will use what’s inside. I wouldn’t have used them before. Not because they are crap, but because I knew I’d already bought those things.
Likewise I think it’s bizarre that in one term of a Scottish council nursery, my daughter came home on NINE occasions with yet another toothbrush and massive tube of toothpaste that was provided by the government to all Scottish children. Absolute waste. We will use the toothpaste because it’s such a bloody waste otherwise. But she isn’t a kid without toothbrushes. We are STRUGGLING financially, but not so much that I can’t get her the toothbrush that’s got a shape and character that makes her brush her teeth. So I didn’t need those. And I didn’t get a choice about whether they were given. Sticking them out for parents/kids to take if they wanted would surely have been less wasteful than just giving them to all of the children so constantly throughout the term.
None of us recieve nothing for our taxes. We all use services. And I totally agree there is so much wasted while more important areas continue to be plundered and underfunded. But me making sure I claim for every single socialist freebie I possibly can won’t fix it, nor will it give me any satisfaction that compensates the fact that the working middle families are being completely destroyed by this government and its policies.
Again though, if you’d use the stuff, I think you should be able to get it whether you REALLY need it or not. That’s why I don’t think they are wasteful in themselves. What I think is stupid, is the fact so many people claim for them who have no intention of thinking about if they really want it. They just apply because it’s there and ‘ why should others get it if I don’t’. Stupid mentality imo. Plenty of people got organ transplants today on an nhs funded by our taxes too. I didn’t. No one’s stamping their feet about not getting the same.