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Guilt Free Railing 15

979 replies

WouldBeGood · 29/11/2021 21:21

The railing never ends.

No resilience wankery, all railing welcome, along with good things or humorous asides.

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ssd · 18/12/2021 13:35

Ive been telling my dcs to go out, like out out, cos i reckon mad restrictions will come in again. Ds said he was going clubbing on boxing day, i said go on xmas eve, they might be shut by boxing day, if we follow Wales. He said 'mum you sound like one of those mums who go on about Nicole sturgeon shutting everything'....wonder if he's been on here

mibbelucieachwell · 18/12/2021 13:37

Physios aren't normal people in my experience @WouldBeGood . They always seem to be super fit and sporty. Sorry to hear about your injury.

Completely agree about the charge of incompetence. Their main skills seem to be frightening people, wasting money and stirring up division.

ecceromani · 18/12/2021 13:42

@ssd I'm saying the same to mine.
DC1 home from uni so I've told her to get out and catch up with her school friends before Christmas in case everything shutsConfused

ssd · 18/12/2021 13:44

Absolutely. I'll hate seeing them stuck in again if that happens. Its not normal, 20 somethings have gave up enough. Id stay in the rest of my life to let me all out and mix and be normal.

ElephantOfRisk · 18/12/2021 13:57

Yes DS2 (now 3rd year Uni) was telling me that it's really only recently that they've started to catch up with their first year flat mates (mainly just visiting each other's flats) and be a bit more sociable and it would be terrible for all that to stop again.

rookiemere · 18/12/2021 15:42

Rail against unintended consequences of covid restrictions.

Moved our steak lunch to tomorrow as youngling had a social arrangement he had forgotten about ( yes I know, we should be harsher parents, but just so delighted to see him out with his pals) so DH and I made our way into central Edinburgh with the vague idea of getting something to eat from the Christmas market.

When we walked past it looked pleasantly uncrowded, but as we discovered when we got to the entrance, this was actually because there was a queue of people waiting to get in that snaked all the way round Princes Street garden and looked like it would take at least an hour or so to get to the front. Of course all the people were pretty close together whilst they queued, thus negating any covid reduction benefits of spacing out the market.

We gave up and enjoyed a festive feast at the - generally hard to get a booking for- all you can eat buffet at Cosmos Blush.

Anyway if we've not got covid already, bound to have caught it on the bus there or back amidst the hawking masses.

mapleleavesreturn · 18/12/2021 16:52

I admit to booking my booster for the crack of dawn Sunday to avoid the changes of picking up omicron in a booster queue!

ResilienceWanker · 18/12/2021 17:02

Oh no. Sorry to hear about your knee wouldbegood Xmas Sad I must say the physio sounds a bit rubbish though, just giving up on you like that. DM has a dodgy knee and she is old (and probably with more than an optimal level of podge) and he's given her exercises which have been working a bit, and she's doing Pilates which has also helped. It's not miraculous, and she will carry on having issues (osteoporosis too) but it's not a total write off and is definitely better than nothing!

I am "one of those mums who go on about Nicola sturgeon shutting everything" Xmas Grin DS has picked up on it too... we went past the queues for the Christmas markets on the bus earlier, and he said (in his foghorn voice) "ooooh, look at all those people... they need to watch out or Nicola Sturgeon will come with her sniper and take them out for having too much fun..." Think I may need to limit the fortnite somewhat, and maybe cut down on the blatant political whinging over dinner Xmas Blush

Managed to move my vaccine to Monday morning, so that's something to look forward to. Is it really sad I'm planning what to wear? Need easy access to arm, but also assume I'll be standing outside in queues for a while... so also warm. How many layers is acceptable, without being silly?!

WouldBeGood · 18/12/2021 17:17

Thanks @ResilienceWanker.

I like the sound of your DS 🤣

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dementedma · 18/12/2021 17:25

I must be missing something. Very few people hospitalised with this "mild" variant yet all hell is breaking loose. Most people can cope with a bad cold surely?

rookiemere · 18/12/2021 17:53

@dementedma the majority of the issue thus far seems to be caused by the isolation requirement, exacerbated in Scotland by the contacts having to isolate as well.

ResilienceWanker · 18/12/2021 18:05

I know what you mean dementedma! I think there's some worry about the very high numbers resulting in hospitalisations in a couple of weeks, even if it is a milder variant, with less likelihood of hospitalisation per infection - NSs "simple arithmetic" argument Xmas Hmm (though at present I don't think our numbers per 100,000 are yet at the level of the Aug/Sept spike which didn't make our hospitals collapse even with the vicious, deadly delta version Xmas Wink).

But more of a worry, as rookie says is if the numbers do go up loads, and everyone catching it has to isolate for 10 days, along with their household in Scotland, that could quickly take out a lot of hospital staff/ care staff/ police and other emergency services/ lorry drivers/ utility people/ teachers etc etc, which could cause big problems with keeping society running. In Aug/Sept it was pretty much just a Scotland spike, so help was brought in from the rest of the UK, but if the whole country is affected we won't be so lucky. Of course, some people physically couldn't work while ill, but many (especially contacts) could work, but aren't allowed to if they can't do it from home. So the "cure" of isolation is causing a lot of the problem.

Also, the general mood is one of panic... not helped by all the messaging and speculation and "not-optional guidance" ... so even those of us who aren't especially worried about the virus itself, are pretty spooked and making weird and not necessarily logical decisions.

Iwantthesummersun · 18/12/2021 18:08

We have said the same thing to our 12 year old @ssd. There’s a meet up she wasn’t fussed about tomorrow that we are dispatching her too as they may not be able to go and hang out in Starbucks soon. We were going to seee Spider-Man after Xmas Day but will go next week as they may shut cinemas again. Have things booked for Monday night at the markets in Edinburgh and we are staying out until the end for the same reasons.

runningpink · 18/12/2021 19:35

Haha! You son is brilliant @ResilienceWanker

I just want to know what we are facing. The anticipation is driving me mad! Not that o will be following lockdown rules this time but certain things I will be unable to do if they close for example so it would be good to know now.

Is she scheduled for an update next week? Or should we expect multiple pop up emergency briefings I wonder!

ssd · 18/12/2021 21:38

I think we'll shut down for the first 2 weeks in January.

Haudyourwheesht · 18/12/2021 21:55

I don't think she does things in short bursts. We lock down in January - we're there for ages.

ssd · 18/12/2021 22:01

I know, same as last year Confused

Lockdownbear · 18/12/2021 22:34

2 weeks my arse!

Remember when Glasgow had a 3 week circuit breaker, 9 months later you could legally have your mum round for coffee! Oh and remember a few months later they were asking if you'd host a random stranger in your house for COP26...

Do they honestly think people will pay any attention?

Scottishskifun · 18/12/2021 22:50

Remember when schools were 2 weeks delayed opening.....then went back in march/April depending on their age!

I don't trust a word of "short circuit breakers" they will just come on and say the numbers aren't dropping quick enough...we have been here before!

Whilst they may shut stuff I'm not limiting my friends or family the good will citizen has well and truly worn off and its a bloody virus it's not the fault of people's behaviour despite the love of the blame game it's doing what it's good at!

ssd · 18/12/2021 23:03

The problem has always been the underfunding of the NHS. everything else has been to distract us from this.

frasersmummy · 18/12/2021 23:24

There are 34 people in icu in the whole of Scotland... how is that overwhelming. I know there is a lag period but its been a few weeks since cases started rising and hospital nos are still falling.
So whats the lockdown supposed to achieve?

I am beyond frustrated with the continuous leaks its driving me mental

ssd · 18/12/2021 23:33

Pubs and restaurants in England shutting at 10pm apparently and then after xmas shutting altogether.

ssd · 18/12/2021 23:34

So says dh

Ladylunchalot · 19/12/2021 00:14

DS is supposed to be going on an outward bound course with his ASN school w/c 10th Jan for 4 nights but I'm doubtful if it'll go ahead. The school seem quite positive but after hearing about circuit breakers I'm not so sure.
Just want to know as I'll need to get organised clothes wise for him if it is going ahead. Was just going to blitz primark for joggies and hoodies for him (have to be black - he won't wear anything else Confused). I hate being unorganised.

Lockdownbear · 19/12/2021 01:17

@Ladylunchalot, I'd get the gear but keep the tags on so returnable if the plug gets pulled.

Better looking at it, than looking for it at the last minute.

One bit of me thinks that this is a storm in a tea up and be normal by mid January. The other bit thinks we're going to be in a 3 month lockdown.

I think that's part of the issue it's all s big guessing game.