wankmaster given the situation, and that you can't really see her another time easily, and that it's not your DD that is positive, I actually agree with the others that you should go. And, like you, I'm very law-abiding and scared of getting caught! If it had been your DD that was positive, I'd hold off though.
I didn't realise T&T didn't follow up on contacts... I had visions of people turning up at our house to check and us not being there, and them putting out nationwide police check things, like interpol! as has happened to a friend of a friend of everyone on MN Or just posting us a whopping fine. But really, if they do that for a random, non-infected child, I'm not holding that there's no resources for them to investigate burglaries and whatever! And what's to prove we weren't just asleep, or in the back garden and didn't hear? They're not going to be doing a stakeout ffs.
helensburgh hope he feels better soon. That sounds grim. I think it's rare as the others have said, but presumably not impossible. The vaccines are "designed" to prevent hospitalisation and death I'd understood, so although lesser versions can be horrible, they aren't ruled out (though even those are less common with the vaccine) . Bloody unlucky, though.