Getting and others dealing with financials, good luck.
My exh has just cancelled our collaborative meeting for the third time. I first appointed my representation in December, he got his in June!!!
He has dragged his feet, for no apparent reason, or his head is still firmly wedged in the sand about the situ.
I am quite upset as I see this as a lack of respect for me and DC and our future. He is still claiming that he will do the right thing??? WHo knows though, as the longer this goes on the more influence his GF will have.
At least when I speak with him on the phone now I can be civil, a huge progression from a few months ago.
The main change was my asking him to leave me alone, no contact at all, I haven't seen or spoken to him for 2 months. He was calling me regularly to 'see how I was' or popping in when collecting DC. No more, what a relief in some ways, it was too painful to see/speak with him.
The moment that made me decide that I no longer wanted contact was when he told me how difficult he found it to deal with me and what he had done to me. WTF!! I told him to 'fuck off and get out of my kitchen'.
Hard for him, bastard!
Tougher, maybe one day we will be amicable, like I said before I do love him, he has always been my best friend. You can't switch those feelings off, no matter how hard you try.
Starting, I was getting views and winks in great numbers, all from weird looking or old men, a few better ones though, who if you winked back never replied again. However, I have been on one date and am seeing him again. BTW I have since decided it isn't for me and removed my profile for now. Hope you enjoy yourself looking.