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I discovered on my husband's laptop that one night while I was sleeping he was looking at internet porn. Not so bad ,you think!, it get's worse. On his history of websites and images were sites involving pre-teen girls. I have confronted him and get the usual I don't know why,I'd had too many beers,I don't even like young girls,I didn't get an erection, blah blah blah. It wasn't just one site or one search although he claims they were all linked and he clicked on the link, although I believe you can't do that on google images. Every time I think of it I feel physically sick and don't know what to do. We have 4 boys of 3,10,14 &17. I keep thinking about their friends and girlfriends he will come into contact with. Am I over reacting? What should I do? I have no one to share this with as both my parents died last year. Can anyone help?

well the op never clarified whether she had actually seen images of children did she? I added my tuppence worth that if she were going on search words preteen is quite typical and would produce a lot of legal porn sites.

looking at the name it's probably all nonsense anyhow

Bjawn is a very strange one, she cannot think it is right, she is obviously here to wind people up.

Even searching for "pre-teen" porn is bad enough, regardless of whether the resulting sites were on the right side of legal. If you search for "pre-teen" then you're looking for 12 year olds.

I think your going to struggle to find many people who think a search for preteen girls is not deeply disturbing, your explanation that its only an euphamism for young looking
is even more disturbing.

Dittany is entitled to her opinions, so what if shes anti porn , you dont get to poke fun at her for her opinion. Frankly if your someone who thinks its ok to parade your wife around in front of your dcs for sexual kicks , along with searching for preteen, youve got a serious problem.

No normal man would ever think of searching for pre teens, it just wouldn't enter their heads no matter how regular a porn user they were.

I've reported. Bjawns only posts says something!

Either a CP issue or trolling.

Preteen is not a typical search term, perhaps only to perveryted individuals like yourself.

I think it is quite clear to tell the difference between an 18 year old dressed up like a school girl and a terrified 5/6/7/8/9/10 year old.

Bjawn are you just trying to upset people???

If someone wants to look at adults fucking each other thats up to them, I will even go as far as to say if you throw in a goat no one really cares but this posters partner has been looking at children, children and no matter how you look at it that is fucked up on every level

As a male poster, I think the original reaction was a bit ott as the OP had not detailed the porn her OH had visited.

If it's older girls pretending to be underage then its bad enough because that means the viewer is looking for that 'thrill'. IF the OPs OH is looking directly for underage girls then report his ass!!

The OP needs to clarify what her OH was actually looking at/for. No histrionics and no over the top reactions.

Are the images actually of young kids which is sick! or of older teens looking like underage kids which to be honest is just as sick.

And just for the record I do not look at kids porn or animals..lol There is nothing wroing in looking at "normal" porn but....

seriously, though if blokes are looking at kiddie porn then I want them to rot in hell

Oh Dittany get of off your soapbox. Chauvonistic stereotypes??

There is nothing wrong with looking at so called normal porn!

You are the one with your feminist attitudes.

No one is minimising/downplaying the kind of images you are talking about on this thread.

All I said was let the OP clarify exactly what images her OP was looking at. If it's the baby type image then lets all jump in and have a go because that is totally perverted. Otherwise shut up, because you will never convince normal people that porn is wrong

Never said feminist attitudes was bad did I? Just said that Dittany cubbyholes people who don't agree with her

Here's a different view, if all the fucked up people with drug and abuse ishoos left the business, then all you'd be left with is 200 exhibitionists. Well balance, happy women do not usually go into porn.

I married a porn addict. The bottom line (no pun intended) is that I got fed up with him being too tired for sex as he was wanking over porn every chance he got. Regardless of any rights or wrongs, I was sick of trying to compete with a dvd of 3 lesbians and a dwarf. Just not possible. And believe me I did try.

And finally, if porn is so wonderfully wholesome and normal and fine, then it would be sound as a pound for your 18 (hell, even 16) year old daughter to go into the porn industry, wouldn't it? Wouldn't be so fucking keen to pant over Anal Sluts 3 then, would you?

We have access to images of other peoples bodies, and things being done to those bodies, as modren technology makes it easily accessable. I think that this 'easy access' to (almost) any woman, any time, doing anything, is not really that healthy for us, especially men. If it's a woman who genuinely loves sex and sexuality, then I have no problem with it. I have done several dvd's my self with friends, for my husband.

dittany I do not always agree with everything you say, but I think you make people uncomfortable in their assumptions of what 'normal people' like - and I love you for that.

How bizarre. This must be a wind-up, surely?

I can't believe that this is turning into some generalised dittany-bashing. The issue is child porn, which is illegal and needs reporting to the police.

OP, if you have a kid with SN then they are very vulnerable and you need to protect them and go to the police.

And if the OP is genuine, I will eat my mother flippin hat.

OP's not come back.

dittany, hide the thread, you're just getting yourself upset.

i understand what ineedabodyttransplant is saying, he's not calling YOU hysterical, just that OP hadn't specified enough to draw a definitive conclusion, so calls to report him to the police might be a bit premature.

Seems like this thread is a bashing for people who like porn. Not just men but women too.

Dittany, I never said that feminist attitudes were wrong, but funny how that is what you have jumped on. I said that your opinion that it is a chauvenistic attitude sucks. Funny how your impression counts but mine doesn't?

This isn't a Dittany bash but she left herself open with her attitude that anyone who looks at porn is sick.

Of course child porn is illegal and should be reported. I did ask the OP to clarify what her OH was actually looking at. Not difficult is it?