He is just messing me about isnt he.

[notcool]

Had a first date about 6 weeks ago. All went a bit quiet after he said i scared him off. I had a go at him about it. Anyway - a month on and he said he does really like me and would like to see me again.
He asked me out for this saturday.
havent had much/any contact this last week as ive been busy.
Was on msn last night and i asked him if we were still on for sat. he said no, hes going to be away and be busy for a few weekends after that.

he is just messing me about isnt he. We can only really see each other weekends beacuse of the distance and work committments ( mine, not his) but if he wanted to see me he could.

i said that i wished him all the best in the future but that i was sorry i could no longer talk to him.

I was expecting to be deleted off his facebook and msn. but im not. Which means he will contact me like nothing has happened in a few weeks. i know it.

but im worth more than that.

can anyone explain to me what is the point?

AF - have you looked on the anagram thread in chat?

That's been keeping me in stitches today.

no, I haven't MF...will check it out

thanks for the stroking (and the support on another thread, too )

You're welcome. (You have been v kind to me lately - I have been various names lately - and I never forget a kindness)

Okay - I read page 1 of this thread and posted a response. completely missed out the mention of a ballbag .

Wash my mouth out with soap if you like, but I can't help but think that the OP is actually a submissive who enjoys being 'made' to wear kinky gear by strangers on the other end of a webcam.

I mean, why else would you start wearing ball bags and nipple clamps for someone you have only met once? Do you have this gear stashed away in a carrier bag under your desk?

The mind boggles.

aww, MF, nice of you

I don't even know who you are ! < but it doesn't matter anyway >

It's not a ball bag, ROnx, it's a ball tie. A tie-on-ball. Or something.

how about a fannybag ?

don't our American friends wear them ?

You could make your own ball tie, if you were minded. Spray a tennis ball black, drill a couple of holes and find a length of black elastic, and hey presto!

Wouldn't hazard a go at making my own fannybag, though. Sense that one might come to grief.

I bet I could buy a bag with a fanny on it or, or even a bag which looks like a scrotum on Etsy.

(and if I can't, well, there's going to be some trouble)

fanny pack AF, do get it right. Tut.

We wet ourselves laughing the first time we heard that (childish emoticon) , almost as bad as "needing to go potty".

Seeing that you can get bags that look like a vulva MF, nothing would surprise me.

I feel like I have to respond on any post by Malsflannel btw.

not quite a bag (Um quite NSFWish, not an actual fanny though.)

Couldn't find any ball bags.

I stand corrected!

You can tell this is all new to me, can't you, LadyThompson

Do they make chocolate ball gags?

I could see the appeal of a chocolate orange ball gag...

cor yes, what a brilliant idea

What a fabulous thread.

TL66
xxx

Definite nipple clamp deja vu here. That OMG teenage crush poster was caught out with a concurrent thread where she/he forgot to name change at one point, something about her mother saying she wasn't in touch with reality because of various things she was saying/doing with friend/boyfriend.

Having said all that. The bloke character here is very familiar from net dating days (minus the ballgag), lots of them about, talk long term as they think that is what gets you into bed, change once they have and try to create a "little black netbook" of available women.

...in case the webcam bit is true, these things can be recorded at the watcher's end easily and you might find yourself starring in the watcher's home film collection or worse uploaded to youporn etc..

I would give anything for dh to tie a chocolate orange ball gag on me right now.

now i really really want some, in any shape or form