ALL NEW Road to Recovery for the Recently Ditched No. 4

[IfYoureHappyAndYouKnowIt]

Dearly Be-Chucked, we are gathered here today because, for whatever reason, our man has dumped us!

Well not really suitable I don't think

I just can't imagine it really

But then I've never had a f* buddy and so the whole idea is slightly alien to me

I think it would need to be someone who just completely swept me off my feet if I was going to do that (that would be nice actually) and that's not him

I think I'm just too uptight. I need to take life less seriously.

Maybe DJHappy is what he needs

That sounds good, you didn't immediately shout NO WAY! You don't need to imagine it, just see if things progress in that direction & then see how you feel. The only thing you've to loose is your guitar instructer...........

The being swept of your feet is what lead to you being a dumpling!!!!!!!!!!! Swept off your feet = full on relationship. Are you ready for that? On the other hand a fu*k buddy is the complete opposite, very little emotional investment & providing their good in bed = maximum return

providing they are!!!! Not their!

That's true. Even my hairdresser has started kissing me on the lips. I certainly couldn't lose both of them.

Could end up tone deaf and grey

Or you could have fab hair for free , services rendered both ways & all that.......

Must be the mating season as I've noticed myself checking out ALL my male friends recently to see would any fit the fb profile..........

OK, I'm taking your advice Starting .

I've been thinking that I'm no way ready for a relationship, but maybe just a bit of action could work? I'm really very boring so I guess that could be exciting. Problem is I'm always a bit all or nothing.

(Thank goodness I had my moustache done, made all the difference)

Maybe this is the mating season.

Perhaps rather than DJ night we need a mating evening where we post hot pictures and discuss ideas to make life a little more exciting?

Or maybe that's another thread...

I used to be a good old all or nothing Catholic girl. The problem is that when you find yourself in the middle of a serious drought you really have to change your way of thinking . I don't think I'd be all that interested in a relationship right now either but I can't say I'd say no if the right fb appeared on my doorstep! .........

Happy, I think you might be on to something.........I love the idea of a mating evening . Might even come up with good ideas on how we could actually find someone to mate with . Great, put thinking cap on........

Hello all,

really struggling today - I've started a new thread. Need to find a way to pick myself up

more here

Hi Chair - I've just posted on your other thread.

I will also do my best to have a fling to make you laugh!

Chin up tits out and pert bump x

Waves to all.........

I've been catching myself eyeing men up too

Happy - does seem very flirty to hang about chatting after lesson. Maybe they're just friendly though

me and my guy

I got rid of my moustache but he kept his

LMAO!

Oh Happy you make me laugh x

I just knew as soon as I saw him

Sometimes you have to follow your heart

ROFL. I'm going to wake the kids with my snorting in a sec!

Dumplings it seems like we are entering a new chapter of our recovery. Here comes the fun..............yipee .

Chairmum, sorry to hear things are not going well for you atm. Seems like a good idea to go back to counsellor & gp. Your bound to be all over the place emotionally as it gets closer to your due date. You will get through this & you will be ok. Just be as kind to yourself as possible. Sending you hugs.

So am I wrong to walk around the shopping centre listening to the many bands playing there today and dream that I am a rock chick?

Arrr, I can but dream

Enjoyed in particular listening to this ...

its a perfect day

Hope this doesn't upset anyone. Appreciate that it may jar a bit from a words perspective but I just love it anyway and to be honest I find it easier to imagine having fun without XH rather than with him. (Apologies again, hope this doesn't offend).

And before I pop off.

Mixed day for me today.

Coffee with friend, retail therapy worked well, home to vomiting DS .

How are you today Chair?