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Introducing my partner to feminism...

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blinder · 14/03/2010 12:03

On the back of a spate of good feminism threads here lately I am looking for book recommendations to give to my DP as an introduction to a feminist critique of society.

He's not a particularly neanderthal man - he loves Naomi Klein for example - but he's a bit uneducated about the reality facing women today.

We have a six month old daughter and it worries us both that she is being launched into a culture that systematically de-humanises (objectifies) girls. I'm sure he would be willing to explore ways that we can parent her consciously so that she can preserve her identity in the face of damaging cultural norms.

At the same time, I don't want him to feel lectured, blamed or patronised by the book. But I would like him to be able to examine his own investment in male superiority and recognise that he does have many assumptions about women and many blind spots about male privilege.

It's a fine line.

So, books for men, fathers or people new to feminism?

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blinder · 22/03/2010 13:37

AnyFucker I just pasted it into word and removed all the misogynistic insults ! Easy peasy.

There were some great suggestions which I didn't want to be lost. Especially as I now have to add them all to my eBay and amazon searches...

Happy reading dungaree-wearers!

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AnyFucker · 22/03/2010 13:48

noooo, please don't make me wear dungarees !

Beachcomber · 22/03/2010 14:50

Thanks for that blinder.

blinder · 22/03/2010 19:47

Get them on AnyFucker and stop whinging. It's for the sisterhood. You can only take them off to go to the toilet. Advanced feminists simply pull one leg to the side.

You're welcome Beachcomber!

By the way, if I omitted anyone's suggestion it was unintentional. Let me know.

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Blackduck · 22/03/2010 19:49

The equality illusion - kat banyard
New out - covers alot of what has been discussed here...
am at some of this thread.....

blinder · 22/03/2010 20:26

Thanks Blackduck. Another great suggestion.

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ladylush · 24/03/2010 11:34

Fucking hell blinder Totally enraged on your behalf at all the vitriol and downright idiotic comments(ala DP). A perfectly reasonable request for some references was pounced on by people I assume have little else do do with their day. daftpunk go and save the white working class boys and stop wasting time on threads you apparently have no interest in.

Beachcomber · 24/03/2010 19:11

What is great is that the new feminism topic was born from this, um, animated thread!

blinder · 24/03/2010 20:56

I am proud of that Beachcomber ! Wasn't it your suggestion? Nicely done.

lush how are you? I keep forgetting to call into the other thread. Don't worry I didn't take any of it personally. I'm a firm believer in projection .

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Beachcomber · 25/03/2010 10:09

I did suggest it on this thread but the idea has been brought up before on MN I think.

Glad there were plenty of takers and for a new topic it is pretty busy already.

ladylush · 25/03/2010 12:05

lol at "animated"
Hi blinder dd is now 8 months old. I sometimes go on the other thread to see what the babies are up to. Hope your dd is doing well

WilloughbyWallaby · 25/03/2010 14:37

Goodness me! Read the first 4 pages of (mainly) insults and was totally shocked; I have an 8 week old DD and feel very similarly to you blinder.

I just wanted to say that I've managed to get DH reading some Margaret Atwood with really interesting resulting discussions, has he read anything by her? Alas, Joni Mitchell is going too far, though I hope DD will love her as dearly as I do.

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