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my mother...again

81 replies

Chyla · 15/06/2005 22:14

She and her internet 'boyfriend' chat from 8pm to 10:30 everynight which is what my mother and I agreed, then I go on at 10:30 for an hour or so but tonight as like a few nights ago, he is able to stay on longer, so she says she is staying on longer which will prob be past when I go to bed. This is so unfair to change the arrangements and she thinks it is fair.

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helsi · 15/06/2005 22:15

can you go on earlier? any compromise to be made?

mogwai · 15/06/2005 22:20

I think you need to get your own place. I'm sorry to sound harsh, but while you live "under her roof" you don't have much say on anything.

Sounds to me (was it you who posted about the chairs in your room?) that she'd also like you to move out. There's obviously a lot of tension between you. I suspect she might like her own space as much as you would.

Could you discuss this with her?

mandyc66 · 15/06/2005 22:25

I think she is unfair too. how would she like it if you went back on your word?

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Chyla · 15/06/2005 23:14

We just had a huge row. Why is she putting this stupid guys feelings before mine? I have just taken 10 paracetomol but I have done this before and it didnt work but now I really want to be dead. I just want it all to be over. I am so unhappy.

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Flossam · 15/06/2005 23:17

you need to go to a and e now then.

starshaker · 15/06/2005 23:19

i agree you cant take a chance with these things u need to get to a&e

HappyHuggy · 15/06/2005 23:19

i think you should go to the hospital

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Chyla · 15/06/2005 23:19

NO, I really don't see the point in living anymore. Before, od-ing was a cry for help, now its for real.

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HappyHuggy · 15/06/2005 23:20

have you told your mom youve taken pills?

HappyHuggy · 15/06/2005 23:22

you still there?

aaliyahsmum · 15/06/2005 23:22

it is still a cry for help because you want people to know, i think you need serious help with this issue, have you thought anymore about working away

soapbox · 15/06/2005 23:22

10 paracetomol is very likely to be a lethal dose. There is very little they can do once it has been absorbed into the blood stream. Very small window of opportunity to stomach pump to prevent absorbtion.

Still its your choice of course!

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Chyla · 15/06/2005 23:23

Its a nightmare living here. Every single time she walks in the room or I hear her footsteps coming to the room I am in, I get really panicky. There is no way out. I have no income so can't get my own place and I have looked so hard for a job but there seems to be none. It's like she sees no wrong and I eventually got on the net as you can see but she told me to get a job tomorrow and to get my own place and also to never speak to her again. Its all because I called her selfish, told her what she was doing e.g. going back on the internet arrangements and I also told her she ruined my life with the abortion and all thru my childhood she made false promises.

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Chyla · 15/06/2005 23:23

Its a nightmare living here. Every single time she walks in the room or I hear her footsteps coming to the room I am in, I get really panicky. There is no way out. I have no income so can't get my own place and I have looked so hard for a job but there seems to be none. It's like she sees no wrong and I eventually got on the net as you can see but she told me to get a job tomorrow and to get my own place and also to never speak to her again. Its all because I called her selfish, told her what she was doing e.g. going back on the internet arrangements and I also told her she ruined my life with the abortion and all thru my childhood she made false promises.

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starshaker · 15/06/2005 23:23

if you really wanted to die then you wouldnt have posted that u had done it. its a cry for help so go get some

HappyHuggy · 15/06/2005 23:23

or it could kleave you with perminate liver damage

Flossam · 15/06/2005 23:23

agree sb.

HappyHuggy · 15/06/2005 23:24

seriously, have you taken the tablets?

collision · 15/06/2005 23:24

Goodness! Does anyone 'know' this girl? Can we contact anyone?

HappyHuggy · 15/06/2005 23:25

cause if you have you need to get to hospital.

mandyc66 · 15/06/2005 23:25

talk to someone.

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Chyla · 15/06/2005 23:25

How can I make her see how obsessed she is with this internet guy and how much she puts him first before anyone else?

I'm so sorry to bore you all with this but I lost touch with all my friends, except for one and she isnt a very good adviser or listener.

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HappyHuggy · 15/06/2005 23:25

dont know her collision.

where about do you live chyla?

SleepyJess · 15/06/2005 23:25

10 paracetamols are unlike to kill you thank goodness. Might cause your liver some serious damage though. Go tell your mum what you have done and ask for her help.

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Chyla · 15/06/2005 23:26

talk to who????? I have no one.

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