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There We Are Then - part 2

970 replies

mummy917 · 20/07/2026 13:05

Follow on from previous

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WearyAuldWumman · 29/07/2026 14:00

Just adding to the good wishes.

cabus · 29/07/2026 16:38

I'm missing @mummy917. I've got used to her little updates. Blush

Londonmummy66 · 29/07/2026 16:47

I'm hoping that it means she managed to get in to work today and that her useless ex did take the DC.

Frillysweetpea · 29/07/2026 18:02

cabus · 29/07/2026 16:38

I'm missing @mummy917. I've got used to her little updates. Blush

Me too - it's part of my daily ritual now!

mummy917 · 29/07/2026 18:56

Sorry for the radio silence, I got an early finish at 6pm with being supernumerary but it was lovely to be back at work. Hectic but that’s usually the best way! Drop off went smoothly thankfully, I was so relieved.

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tinyspiny · 29/07/2026 19:03

That sounds like a great start @mummy917

letshavetea · 29/07/2026 19:07

@mummy917 that’s fab - so pleased for you.

PinkEasterbunny · 29/07/2026 19:08

If 6pm was an early finish, what time would you normally work to?!

But glad all is well

DinosaurusFemina · 29/07/2026 19:23

mummy917 · 29/07/2026 18:56

Sorry for the radio silence, I got an early finish at 6pm with being supernumerary but it was lovely to be back at work. Hectic but that’s usually the best way! Drop off went smoothly thankfully, I was so relieved.

@mummy917 thanks for the update - I’ve been thinking about you all day!

Tilluna · 29/07/2026 19:49

I’m another who has been thinking of you all day, delighted that the radio silence indicated all went well with the drop off and that you were able to resume your role. Onward and upward @mummy917.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 29/07/2026 20:18

Very relieved, hopefully some boundaries enforced now will stand you in good stead going forward.

Tilluna · 29/07/2026 20:28

This.

mummy917 · 29/07/2026 20:45

Thank you everyone, it’s been lovely to read your comments from today 🥰 it’s been strange not being able to keep up! Yeah it was strange to be back and I felt like a fish out of water for the first hour or two, trying to get my bearings again but it was like riding a bike haha.

I don’t finish until 8pm usually. Sometimes that runs over depending on how the acuity of the ward is, but we never get out early unless it’s like today where I wasn’t in the numbers.

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mummy917 · 29/07/2026 20:46

It has made me realise that with everything else still going on in my life at the moment though, reducing my hours down to 24, has been the best decision for both me and the kids.

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Lostpassporthelp · 29/07/2026 20:52

I’m so glad today went well and there was no drama, well done!

Lunde · 29/07/2026 21:05

mummy917 · 29/07/2026 20:46

It has made me realise that with everything else still going on in my life at the moment though, reducing my hours down to 24, has been the best decision for both me and the kids.

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SpiritedFlame · 29/07/2026 21:06

So glad today has gone well, well done you! Also pleased that it has reinforced your confidence with going down to 24 hours being the right decision for you and the children x

ItsOkItsDarkChocolate · 29/07/2026 21:17

@mummy917

Really glad it went well today on all fronts! Figured the lack of post was a good sign!

Hope you sleep well! Time to recharge!

mummy917 · 29/07/2026 21:25

Definitely been the best thing for us, I’ll have a much better work life balance I feel.

Yes I’m absolutely pooped, I forgot how tiring it was 🤣 feeling nervous for tomorrow and being back in the deep end again and back in the numbers xx

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Daisymail · 29/07/2026 21:31

Glad you had a good day!

PyongyangKipperbang · 29/07/2026 21:42

mummy917 · 29/07/2026 21:25

Definitely been the best thing for us, I’ll have a much better work life balance I feel.

Yes I’m absolutely pooped, I forgot how tiring it was 🤣 feeling nervous for tomorrow and being back in the deep end again and back in the numbers xx

DD is an ODP and she said the best thing about her phased return after a serious work place injury was being supernumary, because it didnt matter if she skived a bit haha!

And that she usually went home early!

Jardenalia · 29/07/2026 22:56

This is great news in every way OP, I’m so pleased for you all xx

mummy917 · 30/07/2026 20:56

Thank you. Not been the best day today; I had to leave early (around 6:30) because I now have the vomiting bug. Which is great when the kids come back to me in the morning, so I’m hoping for a good nights sleep as it’s wiped me out in the last 2 hours.

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Happyeleven · 30/07/2026 20:59

Oh no @mummy917 just came here to check for any update - sorry to hear that! Hope you can shake it off by tomorrow bless you

FloofyKat · 30/07/2026 21:01

Oh no,poor you! Hope you feel better very soon.