Partner wants me out and I do not feel able to cope alone

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He keeps trying to chuck me out the house he said your gone after I made a mess several times in the bathroom . recently I spoke to some people at a shop they asked if I was okay so I told them a bit about my situation, the girl at the shop said I could talk to her anytime so I said some things about my situation he then said he wanted to talk to me the people at the mushroom shop had told everything we both said to him he said he had enough , he said this is why we have to move on I feel betrayed by the people in the mushroom shop they misquoted what I’d said he was angry.

He also he I was very miserable a while back he said we are selling the house as I came home after a few bears I was a bit tipsy my daughter was being cared for by him . I can’t do anything right I have no friends as they are ignoring me as they are busy my neighbour is in a bad way and wants to be left alone I’ve only got him and my daughter, my mum is too busy to see me very often , she told me to toughen up which wasn’t helpful she told me not to cry over losing my family and the house he says I go on about myself which he calls me a nightmare but I’m struggling I got discharged from mental health services recently they said I’m fine I’m not I’m taking antidepressants my antipsychotic s and benzos I’m only taking about my self as I’m struggling and looking for support I’m feeling scared about losing my family and my home , a social worker has tried to get me a flat by myself but that wouldn’t work I need supported accommodation i really wouldn’t cope living on my own

There was one a few days ago which I strongly suspect was by the same OP

And in that one people said she'd started other threads previously too

So yes I think she has

Is the mushroom shop a metaphor?

Go back to your social worker, please.

Or speak to your doctor, can or crisis team, if these are magic mushrooms stop taking them. You need urgent help with your behaviour and mental health.

Well why doesn’t he just leave then ?

Doubt it’s a magic mushroom shop as that would be illegal but never come across a normal mushroom shop in my life ! Are you neurodivergent op?

Same!! And what the bathroom mess was… 😬💩

Shroomhuts /mushrooms stores are a thing in some countries. They are illegal here in Canada, but they still exist.
Also, shrooms can cause diahrea, so give those a rest.

Focus on taking the meds prescribed to you, engage with your social worker to find supportive housing.
Your family can't give you to constant care you are looking for.

If you google "Mushroom Hat , Coombs British Columbia" you can see an example of one

I don’t think anyone here can help you. If you have a social worker, speak to them. If it’s not his child, he has no responsibility to house your daughters doesn’t have to stay with you, that’s fine to split up but I have no idea whose house you live in as to whether he can just ask you to leave? Is it a mortgage in both your names and you’re not married?

If I have understood correctly it's his house and he has custody of their shared DD. OP doesn't answer a lot of questions though and her posts can be hard to follow. I don't understand how this situation is still continuing as OP has been posting variations on the same post for a few years now.

Do not tell people you hardly know any details of your life this should only be after a long time of knowing them
you say you made a mess in the bathroom what sort of mess why did you not clear it up?
I am sure you could manage what makes you think assisted living is what you need? ours are supposed to be that but due to cuts getting somewhere like that is very hard; our warden has gone we have to pay for our own pendant alarms
I would go back to your GP and tell him things are going wrong
ring MIND or SANE for help
you seem to like being a victim you need to be taking control for you or your daughter you need to find you both a safe home and start taking control of your life

Gently OP, he’s been trying to leave the relationship for quite some time now, you need to let this one go.

The latest issues are now a step too far, you cannot repair things or make him stay. You have a lot of issues and it has been suggested many times before that you need to get help for yourself, it is not your ex’s problem to fix

You need to phone your crisis team lovely, no one here can help you solve the housing issue.

You need to move out and focus on sorting yourself out.

You act like a child and then play the victim.

The only person I feel sorry for is your DD and you living in that house is not giving her the stability she needs.

Ring the council and say you cannot stay there and they should house you temporarily until you can find somewhere else.

Stop telling random people your business, especially if you are talking bad about someone but still leaving your DD with him and wanting to stay in a relationship with him - it only paints you in a bad light.

You cannot look after yourself right now, let alone your DD.
You’ll need to put her first and that means leaving her with him whilst you sort your life out.

It sounds as though you need professional help, OP - you need to listen to your social worker. Your relationship sounds as though it’s over - your priority should be your daughter.

I once did magic mushrooms at a festival and got the terrible shits... so maybe that's what's going on?

He can end the relationship for whatever reason he wants to, as can you. It doesn’t matter what his reasons are, he doesn’t want to be with you any more. You need to deal with the situation you’re in.

Hello again. Im sorry you are struggling so much but no matter how many threads you start, the replies are not going to change, your ex's (because thats what he is) wishes are not going to change and your situation is not going to change.

You need to accept he doesnt want to be with you. He has the right to end the relationship. He does not need your permission or agreement. He wants out.

You need help to leave. Perhaps social services might be able to advise you, given your health situation and resulting needs.

I feel for this poster so much after this and her previous threads.
So sad that she’s not getting the support she so genuinely needs and none of us here can help her with anything at all.
I suppose all MN is for her is an outlet for how she feels.
It is a stark reminder of the amount of people in genuine need of help and the stark resources out there for them.

Not this crap again.

First post nails it - whatever it was

Yes, this 😔 my heart sinks when I see another post, she is clearly very unwell and not getting the help she needs. I do feel for her and those around her, what an awful situation for everybody concerned.

I agree but the only thing that frustrates me is that she doesn’t listen to the advice given.

She’ll start a thread and then leave it and then start another one.

She sounds incredibly vulnerable, talking to anyone who will listen and it sounds like her friends and family are struggling with her.

I feel really sorry for her DP and DC and hope she can move out soon so they can have a bit of stability.

It looks like you need more care and attention than he is able togive. Sounds like he's at the end of his tether. You need support from somebody. If you've got a social worker contact them.