Life360 Shows DH Spent 59 mins in Thai Massage

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As the title says. DH away abroad with some friends. Checked life 360 this morning and showed he had spent 59 minutes in a Thai massage place. Took all the screenshots and sent a friend. It’s not on Google but on street view with a number. It’s not looking good is it??

The gaslighting on this thread is off the charts.

If I was cynical I'd think it was men posting as women to gaslight the OP.

Jesus. Get a life

It’s got to be. @bohemianwrapsodycoming up with pictures of a high street 🤪 I mean…

Sending a hug OP. I hope you have RL support. These trackers can be wrong.. most of my family have been shown swimming in the Thames at some point!

You know your DH best so trust your instincts and gut when you see him. Is he back tomorrow?

This is my first thought on it too.

My ex would semi-regularly have expensive ‘proper’ massages at home and would always get one at eg the airport on the way to a business trip abroad in the first class lounge (I know, he sounds like a douche!).

For him, getting a massage on a lads holiday wouldn’t be out of the question, but at that time of night and in an area which didn’t seem the usual ‘spa’ type of place, I would still be highly suspicious. Sorry OP.

"Lads trips" to Amsterdam and Hamburg and now this? Yuk. You know what he's up to. Bin.

And?? Just stop tracking your husband, OP - it's a vile thing to do to another competent adult.

Some really dickish replies. A bunch of lads at a Thai massage parlour at night were not getting innocent massages really were they.

I would ask DH outright hey saw you were at a massage parlour while you were on holiday, surprised those replace stay open that late. You'll know from his reaction.

The question is. What will you do if he's paid for a hand job?

There is this strange thing called "context"

Time zone? type of holiday? Location? Is this a pattern of behaviour?

Is he in Turkey and they all went into a Haman they all had a Thai massage after a night drinking?

It wasn't a just a minor omission. The OP drip-fed So it isn't surprising that they are being questioned. @Shocke

That's not what gaslighting means.

I’d agree with you OP. My OH isn’t the sort to have regular massages at home so if I saw he’d been at a Thai massage parlour at 9pm at night on a lads weekend, I wouldn’t expect the outcome of this to be good.

I’m sorry I don’t have any real advice for you. Do you know any of the other wives/girlfriends to tell them about it? I’d assume the other guys were in on it too.

God the replies are horrible. This poor woman has come on here for support and advice when her husband has clearly gone to a brothel If he’s there at 9 pm after a lads night out.
And goodness me UKpunting is an eye-opener what thoroughly depressing insight into the male mind. The way some of these men talk about these women is just horrific (& it turns out what I thought were a couple of genuine Thai massage shops in my area are indeed running as grubby brothels )

Thai massage is amazing - and its literally that, and really good massage. There needs to be more reason why you are thinking its not good. Do you generally trust him or do you yourself have trust issues? It really may or may not be totally innocent.

I don't think you understand. Lots of families can see each other family members' locations. It is something they all set up together and consent to. You don't have to like it, but you have made yourself look ignorant by saying it is 'vile'.

No. Within less than 5 minutes of posting that he was abroad with lads and he’d been at a massage parlour for an hour, she clarified that it was after drinking, after 9pm and that their usual haunts are places like Amsterdam and Hamburg. Also that it looked like a grubby backstreet in the city centre.

For well over an hour, posters like you have come to stick the boot in, and yes, many of them gaslighting even if pp claims it’s not. Why the fuck do you need to know his time zone?

The OP said very very early on that it was at 9pm.

Don't let others opinions (when they don't know all the nuances of your situation) affect you. Trust your own instincts on this and have confidence in yourself.
If you think (being in possession of all the facts/details) that there is something off here follow it up.
No one in the ether online can know what has gone on here ,everything people say may or may not be the truth and people like a debate/argument,its human nature.

What a load of miserable bitches on this thread . Usually the ones that their dh ARE actually cheating on. Always the ones that are so sure of themselves . Op it’s dodgy and I think you know your gut. I’m sorry 😞

Try and find the reviews for the place, if it’s all men saying along the lines of ‘girls change every week’ ‘lovely selection etc’ then yes it is what you think it is. However if they talk about sports injuries etc you’re good. Men aren’t very discreet.

You can’t trust Life360 locations. They can be off by a street, let alone a building.

If my husband was on a stag do and went to a massage parlour in the night I would know it was a brothel or a massage place that offered extras. Unless this is normal behaviour for your husband and he gets a massage everywhere he goes at all times of day and night then you know what he’s doing there.

For you it was not a questionable omission, for others it was.

Usually right themselves within much less than an hour though.

Surprising it left him at the brothel for 59 minutes when he was probably innocently taking a break from his lads boozing to help out at the soup kitchen.

Judging by the replies, it’s more likely than he paid 40 euro to shag a trafficked girl.

OP, i really feel for you today and some folk need to have a bit more sympathy. You need to wait and see if he mentions the massage when he comes home. Give him a day to tell you then ask him if he enjoyed his Thai massage, by his reaction you know what has gone on. Please get your ducks in a row because it is better to be safe than sorry.

For you it wasn’t an omission. For many many others it wasn’t either. She’d clarified it all within minutes by the time you all came to act like dicks towards her. Why is that?