Life360 Shows DH Spent 59 mins in Thai Massage

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As the title says. DH away abroad with some friends. Checked life 360 this morning and showed he had spent 59 minutes in a Thai massage place. Took all the screenshots and sent a friend. It’s not on Google but on street view with a number. It’s not looking good is it??

If he had been visiting a brothel, believe me he wouldn’t have been in there for 59 minutes!

It wasn’t a residential area more like a side street in the city / town he’s in

The fact you feel the need to track him says it all really, massage is a red herring.

Maybe step away from the internet for a while - and stop stalking your DH. Oh, and don’t use the mysoginistic insult ‘bitches’ as it will garner you no sympathy.

I don’t feel the need to track him it’s a family life 360 we set up as have teenage children. I think he’s forgot he’s on there

Right, so as I said Life360 can be off. DH was in London recently and according to Life360 he spent one evening in the middle of the Thames. He was actually in a pub overlooking it.

I saw something on here once that works to find out if a Thai massage place (and probably others) offers sexual services. Google the address of it or name of the business and UK Punting and there is a grim review site that will tell you.

it’s vile - and I did it the other day as I wanted to book myself in to a Thai place on hol in the UK and they now blur out words like BJ but this one (which I didn’t book obvs) said “masseuse looked really sulky during HE” and didn’t recommend it.

but you’ll know if they offer sexual services. Good luck.

He must be laughing his arse off at you. Could get away with fucking murder if he wanted to.

“Would you recommend”? You’d sound a right dick tbh

😂😂😂 you really know nothing about it do you. It’s a brothel, they’re not usually on a parade of shops 😂😂

Erm, I think you're the one who knows nothing about Thai massage parlours!

He went to a massage place, not a brothel? How do you know its dodgy if you've never been there? My usual guy works until 9, he's definitely not in the sex business! Shaking and crying because your husband had a massage? Get a bloody grip!

If you think he'd go somewhere dodgy, why are you still with him? If there's no trust, split up.

OP, as PP have said: regardless of what he did or didn’t do, the way you are reacting says a lot about your relationship which is more significant than this one thing.

in our household if the same happened I might mention to DH next time I spoke to him: hey I looked on 360 and it said you were at a Thai massage place. What was that about/ what happened/ tell me about it (none of that accusatory). In other words, I wouldn’t jump to conclusions (I trust him) and I’d just ask (we communicate).

Shocked at you too.

What on earth happened here? Regulars posters like you @Soontobe60@Maddy70@Peckishpip

all up early and sticking the boot in when it’s quite clear the OPs husband spent a few quid in a back street knocking shop last night. Fucking embarrassing, it’s you that should step away from the internet.

Goodness me.

Are you really that dense?

Well there's Thai Massage (which I have regularly) and 'Thai Massage' (which I've never had). I gotta say the hour and context suggests the latter. I think @Peckishpip has the right idea, just raise it casually and his response should tell you everything.

No, but I think you are. There are actually 2 Thai massage places within walking distance of my house, and they're both in parades of shops. When I've clocked them elsewhere and abroad, they're in parades of shops. They always are. Usually sandwiched between a kebab house and a nail salon. God knows where you live where they're just languishing in the middle of a residential street.

Not sure what’s happened here OP. Sorry you’ve had this response from regular MNetters.

It’s clearly not the Thai massage places they all go to, “on a parade of shops”.

I wouldn’t mention life 360 to him. I’d just casually ask if he’s having a good time, what did he get up to last night etc. See if he lies, if it’s as innocent as this mob think then he’ll be saying “ooh what a lucky sod I am, I went for a massage”.

When he gets home say you had a weird notification for a payment from Munich Happy Massage or whatever and see what he says. He’ll obviously deny it and claim to have been miles away at that time or he’s been “scammed”.

Only when he’s dug his own very deep hole would I mention life 360. By which point he can pack his bags

Some crazy replies on this thread OP.
Of course this wasn't an innocent massage.

And judging by the destinations he and his pals go to then using sex workers has been the whole point of these previous holidays as well.

So now you are in no doubt about the type of man he is and how he disrespects you and puts your health at risk by his behaviour what are you going to do about it OP?

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And what do you think most back street brothels like the one the OPs husband visited last night might masquerade as?

I’ll give you a clue…and it starts with T

Jesus, some of the replies on here this morning. It's quite clear to anyone with half a braincell what the OP's husband has been up to.
OP, I hope you're ok and you have some real life support.

Look at all these “cool wives” who don’t give two shits about their husbands visiting massage parlours.

@SawAUsefulTip Actually has some good advice, I would do some digging just on the VERY SLIM chance it’s a legitimate “massage only” place.

Op I’d be devastated - and probably on the phone to a locksmith. When is he due back home?

How is your relationship normally? Can you check bank records? (Although probably cash). Is your friends husband on the trip who you sent screen shots to?

If there’s no sign or street markings, and no website, how do you know it’s Thai Massage place?

streetmaps can be years out of date, so the signage may not have been there at that time.

Look up the location on Google maps, search for massage at the location and see if there are any online user reviews - they are often explicit in there like or dislike of the services offered and might give you a cue as to the precise nature of the business.

How likely is it that a man went for a massage (Thai or otherwise) when we is away getting pissed up with his mates?

It’s bloody obvious he’s gone to a brothel. Now he may say he just went to keep an eye on a friend but ultimately he’s gone to a brothel.

Not sure what I would say or do but please don’t gaslight the OP.

I would be really surprised if he just had a Thai massage on a weekend away with friends, sorry.