Oh yeah, mine said he had never stopped loving me, too, all while assassinating my character and everything about me, putting me under insane pressure over my weight, telling me that living with me was making him suicidal, and finally walking out on me for good because I had some pesto in the fridge.
But he had never stopped loving me, you understand. 🤣
Actually, I've just had a flash of insight. I think I know what this is all about.
Every man knows that walking out on your wife, especially your wife and kids, is cad behaviour. They know full well that it's the opposite of protector and provider behaviour, the opposite of what it means to be a man, a good man, a gentleman, a knight in shining armour. They know that leaving your woman to face the world alone is the lowest of male behaviour. They know that they are leaving you unprotected. (Yes, I know this is 2026 and we are not living in a fairytale; I'm talking purely in terms of irrational male psychology here.)
However! They cannot have their self-image of a good man ruined that way. They must neutralise their shame and preserve their knight self-image. Because they are not the kind of lowlife who does bad things to women, no way!
So they preserve their view of their own male integrity, and their positive sense of themselves as a man, by making out that you're the villain and that, le sigh, they still love you and would be with you still, were it not for your horrific behaviour and character. So sad are they, that they loved you so much but that you are so terrible that you drove them away. So terrible that they might have committed suicide if they had stayed! Said mine, anyway. Which is interesting since I've never managed to inspire such strong emotions in anyone else I've lived with, and they're all still in rude health!
It's a psychological dance on which you come off worst. The purpose is to avoid admitting to themselves that they swore off the woman they promised to love and cherish forever, so that they could stick their dick in someone else. To admit that to themselves would shatter their sense of being a man.
Mine dumped me so that he could have a chance of sticking his dick in women who are slimmer than me. He denies this even though he is very, very clear that he left because of my weight.
These marital dumpings are all about sex, at the end of the day. They cannot live up to the promises of marriage, they want to get rid of a good woman and break all their promises so that they can wiggle their worm in lots of different pussies, hoping to get younger ones and better bodies. That's what it comes down to. They broke up their marriages to good, loyal women for sex and lust, which makes them into the worst kind of lowlife scumbag men. They know it, we know it, but they'll do anything to put us off the scent of knowing it.
They are creeps, every single last one of them.