Please don’t judge me to hard

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This is gonna sound really silly but my anxiety is through the roof.

a man who has been asking me to take me out since 2018 is taking part in a celebrity charity football match (celebrity side) and has asked me to go. It’s a family event so thought it would be something fun to do with my boy for the day as it’s a 2 hour drive each way.

Well now I’m panicking!! The whole influencer life really isn’t my circle so I was hoping to slide in, watch, see him briefly after and then disappear. He has other ideas! He wants me to get there a bit early and take me and my boy in to meet everyone!’

Its gonna be cold and even raining so it’s not exactly a look my best event and I don’t wanna look like a fan girl!!

can someone help me stop overthinking this?!

Obviously, this has now been made a guessing game. I wonder if Googles got it.

31, friends with callum best, playing tomorrow. D list celeb

https://www.instagram.com/accounts/login/?next=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fjoe_jacko89%2F&is_from_rle Joe Jackson?

If so, I will just say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder 😂😂

I don’t even know who that is

plus I’ve already said it’s no one who is actually named on the list of players

I’m sure he’s invited all his followers(after all that is the purpose of them attending charity events) so you might well get lost in the crowd if you get anywhere near! One to one conversation, other than perhaps an autograph/snapshot opportunity, is unlikely and even then the event will hardly make a byline.

Autograph? From who? Tbh I wanna go and just blend in, it’s him that’s asked me to call him when I’m there etc 🤣🤣

Then why is he there if he's not meant to attract ticket sales?

what a lot of tosh

good for the ones reading and posting on your non thread

Of course he’s meant to be attracting ticket sales but it was me who made a joke about just turning up without telling him and the convo went from there

What’s a load of tosh?

4 hour round trip and paying to watch, refreshments etc sounds expensive and not even that much fun for DC.

You mention your confidence issues and that dating is likely to be tricky for you due to your circumstances.

There is a performative element to his invitation.

If he wanted to get to know you better, in person, he could invite you to something 1:1.

Speaking to and thinking about him seems a waste of your resources.

Jordan Millward

31
Tee total
Lost his brother
Friends with callum
Playing tomorrow.

😂 This is keeping me entertained this afternoon

But you are somehow expecting him to know you are there? Will you not naturally gravitate towards those may who recognise you? Otherwise I doubt you would be pictured together, so why such a concern?

It was my choice to pay for the tickets but I wanted to pay for them, they’re only £13, £20 petrol and I’m also catching up with a friend who actually lives where the match is being held.

He has asked to take me out previously 1:1

🤣🤣

Noooo! I made a joke about just turning up to him and then my mates said why don’t we go. He knows I’m going now 🤣🤣

Nope. Again don’t know who he is 🤣🤣

Gwon, give us another clue 😂

Absolutely not! Sorry 🤣🤣

I also, do not k ow who any of these people are. The only ones I recognise from the publicised list re jake wood, Dean gaffney and callum best

Go with just the girls and not the DC for this time? as he has suggested potentially getting a drink afterward.......

Same! I had to do a insta search to see who they were 🤣🤣

I’m going because my boy said he wanted to go. He’s also tee total and I’m leaving with my mates, all at the same time

So probably under £100 for the day but that’s still £100 you could have spent on something else.

what are you hoping will happen? If you’ve decided it’d be best not to get involved with him romantically, for whatever reasons, why go? If you would like the romance, or to flirt a bit in person, why involve your DC?

I like the MN advice for ‘social media’ type interactions to arrange to meet up quickly, and not invest time/energy in weeks/months/years of interactions without meeting up.

Dan Osbourne

Oops my bad, I thought the guy had suggested hanging out afterward.....

It gets my boy out, I catching up with a friend I haven’t seen in 4/5 years and it get me out of the house.

a pair of trainers for my boy can cost me over £100. I’m not neglecting something else to pay to go to this game 🤣🤣

Yeah he has, with our mates all together