Like a similar poster not long ago, I am astounded at the number of mums posting abut their partners' affairs.
Yet, there is always another side- they are having affairs with women- many of whom will be mums too.
I am interested to hear the OWs stories. Things are never as black and white as one side may think.
Sometimes affairs can stop a marriage falling apart- if it is discreet or if both partners are relaxed about it- certainly, the upper classes and French presidents openly have affairs and everyone seems to accept it.
This is NOT the thread to join in with if you are hurting from your DHs affair, or if you can only see one side, and can only contribute things like marriage vows, trust, etc etc- but as a general open-minded debate it would be good to hear some other sides to it.