Question for the married women

[georgiegold]

If you had to redo your life, would you get married again?
I’m interested in the answers from women who are currently married and living with their spouse.

32 years married (first and only), together 10 before that and (crucially I think) agreed early on that we didn't want children. It's not been hard at all - irritations on both sides and a couple of events which could have blown things up if we had let them, but generally very happy.

Married 15 years, together 20+ years, 1st marriage for both. We’ve been through lots of ups and downs and supported each other so yes I’d do it again.

Yes, and yes for my first marriage even though he was a wanker. Current marriage 18 years together and I’d do it again in a heartbeat; first marriage being married protected me from financial abuse.

Married for 35 years so probably yes but fantasise about being single on rough days and even not so rough days

💯 yes I’d marry him again. Been together 18 years, married 15.

That being said, if anything were to happen to him or us, I’d never marry again.

For me, I wanted marriage for children. Now we have our kids and they’re growing well, I would not consider it again in the future.

As far as marriages go, I’m one and done 😂

Together 35 years, married 31. Would marry him again. First marriage for us both, we were only 24 when we did.

I’m in absolute awe at all these happily married couples, I really am.

I posted earlier that if I had to restart my life and I knew then what I know now then I definitely wouldn’t marry my husband. 100%.
But we have two beautiful children and I wouldn’t change them for the world because they literally, are my world.
He has come home this evening and has been an absolute arse. He’s gone out with the eldest (pre-arranged) and the youngest has stormed upstairs because of the shouting, even though I asked him not to shout at me.
I honestly wish I’d left him years ago.

Yes. Married 19 years and would marry him again

Been married 20 and together 25. Yes I would marry again, but my wedding would be different.

I’ve been married 29 years ( 2nd for me, 1st for him) and I feel same as you - it’s not that there’s any hate and I do care but he’s done some really crappy upsetting things over the years that changed how I felt deep down , I chose to forgive and move on but that doesn’t mean to say I wouldn’t make different choices now if I was starting again

No, but he's not a good person. I wouldn't change my kids for the world and it's been worth it for that, but he has brought a huge amount of misery to my life. We split for a few years and reconciled. I was far happier on my own as a single mum.

Been together 35, married for 30, only marriage for both of us, no kids... And sad to say, no, I definitely wouldn't do it if I could restart. I'd walk very fast in the opposite direction.

We’ve been married for nearly 27 years, together for 30 years.

I would definitely marry him again. That was one of my best decisions in life.

Together 30 years, married for 28 and I’d marry him again tomorrow in a heartbeat. He’s been my rock. Nor always been plain sailing but we’re a team and work together.

I love him & he’s still sexy.

First marriage.
married at 22, now 42 so 20 years.
Would do it all again in a heartbeat.

Yes I definitely would marry him again.

We met at school and have been together 42 years, married for 38 of them.

1st marriage. 24 years. Together for a good few years before that (as we were very young). I would do it again in a heartbeat, although maybe in a different dress 😂

Yes. 25 years, married 16.

Together 17 years, married 8 and I would do it again in a heartbeat. If, god forbid, something happened to him I wouldn’t touch another man for as long as I lived

Absolutely, we’re a team and he’s my best friend. Married 25 years (together over 30). Yes, my only marriage.

Together for 16 years, married 11, live together. First marriage for both of us. I would only do it again if I could marry him! He’s my best friend.

Absolutely not.

First marriage. Been together 30 years. Yes I definitely would although there have odd times when we both would have said no!

First husband - most definitely not. I ignored the red flags and was only early 20s so very naive. Of course I don't regret my sons, however.
My now husband - if only I'd have met him sooner! But I think the woman I became was only because of the strength I found from experiences in my first marriage.

10 years together, second marriage and I'd marry him again tomorrow and every day after that if I could.