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Photo posted of children without my consent

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OneCalmReader · 01/09/2025 15:32

Hi,
I recently posted about my Narcissistic MIL. She had got angry about me not posting a photograph of her hijacking my two DDs first look at my wedding. She ruined part of my day by sabotaging a first look between my DDs and she can’t seem to understand why I am upset about it and she decided to call me horrible names and say things to belittle me.
Well, yesterday she changed her profile photo on Facebook to the photo I never wanted to post. It wasn’t supposed to happen and she had access to it from a private album of our wedding photos. Where do I stand with this? I have reported it to Facebook for violating my privacy as I haven’t given her consent to post an image of myself and my children, but I haven’t heard anything back yet. I’m just not sure how to take further action.

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TurnipCruncher · 06/09/2025 20:52

Omg bridezilla.

FattyMcFattyArse · 06/09/2025 23:58

You had a gender reveal party didn't you, OP?

MyObservations · 07/09/2025 07:22

OneCalmReader · 01/09/2025 15:47

Anyone who has read my first post about this might understand

'fraid not, don't understand what you're talking about, even in the first post. Can't you just use normal language?

MyObservations · 07/09/2025 07:44

Baublebonkers · 03/09/2025 07:32

Some MIL are absolute bitches, that’s why I don’t have any more to do with mine.

How many MIL have you had?

Ellsbells8996 · 07/09/2025 10:42

This gave me a much needed laugh 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂

millymollymoomoo · 07/09/2025 12:13

Honestly what a load of shite

no-one other than you gives a crap about your wedding, your dress or anything else.

you sound like hard work !

Onthebusses · 07/09/2025 12:29

OneCalmReader · 01/09/2025 15:32

Hi,
I recently posted about my Narcissistic MIL. She had got angry about me not posting a photograph of her hijacking my two DDs first look at my wedding. She ruined part of my day by sabotaging a first look between my DDs and she can’t seem to understand why I am upset about it and she decided to call me horrible names and say things to belittle me.
Well, yesterday she changed her profile photo on Facebook to the photo I never wanted to post. It wasn’t supposed to happen and she had access to it from a private album of our wedding photos. Where do I stand with this? I have reported it to Facebook for violating my privacy as I haven’t given her consent to post an image of myself and my children, but I haven’t heard anything back yet. I’m just not sure how to take further action.

Did you use the link? Facebook will remove the pic immediately.

https://www.facebook.com/help/contact/516343134409068

Baublebonkers · 07/09/2025 12:36

MyObservations · 07/09/2025 07:44

How many MIL have you had?

Just the one

WhattheFudgeareyouonabout · 07/09/2025 12:37

So let’s get this straight… YOU posted a photo of MIL and DDs online. Now you’re mad that MIL posted the exact SAME photo online. Really? She probably assumed consent as you clearly posted a photo of HER with you adds. It works two ways- DID YOU ASK FOR HER CONSENT?

MyObservations · 07/09/2025 16:30

Baublebonkers · 07/09/2025 12:36

Just the one

So does she know what you think of her? Just askin'

BritherPhil · 08/09/2025 06:56

GonnaeNoDaeThatJustGonnaeNo · 01/09/2025 15:39

Calling you names is out of order but I don't understand your "first look" thing at all.

Facebook wont get involved in policing family squabbles I am afraid.

It’s not just a family squabble - it’s also an intellectual property issue - which might be a useful point to make to Facebook.

Baublebonkers · 13/09/2025 21:53

MyObservations · 07/09/2025 16:30

So does she know what you think of her? Just askin'

Haven’t spoken to her for a good few years now as she was so awful to me ( was the second time) and she never ever apologised, so I cut her out.
she knows why.

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