My husband just attacked me

[OneSnug]

I’m 7 weeks pregnant and my husband just attacked me in an argument and kicked me in the stomach. Our entire relantionship has just ended. I will never look at him or be near him again. Ten years. 4 rounds of IVF. He’s always had an ugly side but never raised his hand on me until now. Apparently I was shouting and I’m not allowed to in his mind and that gave him the right to physically attack me.

Be prepared. Keep cool. Step by step and above all stay safe. Each hour you can get through takes you nearer to your goal.

OP, please be careful with your phone, remove the facial recognition & change your password.
Also Change your email & Mumsnet password !
If he is suspicious he will rip the phone from your hands....

My ex saw me use my passcode and he memorized it

He broke into all my devices

While I was in labour he came across. A list of all the beating I kept

Be careful. Especially with I pads linked to your phone too

These Fckers are tech savvy sometimes

I hope youre ok op and have managed to get away

I hear you OP. Keep breathing. Find a way to tell your mum. Thinking of you.

Praying for you OP

Do not try to leave at the same time as your mother to get on a flight. Even if you enter departure area, he can make false claims against you of theft and get you arrested. Then later say it was a misunderstanding.

You have to DEFLECT
Get your mum to extend her stay for another two weeks. Let him know. Go shopping for new pillows and bedding to deflect.

Meanwhile, book two tickets to leave soon well before the anticipated date. If your mum can't take the news well, then just pretend that she's not well, and go to the room to sleep.

If you book a spa, he might call up to check where you are. Just leave everything else behind. Just take your handbags and pretend to go shopping.

Wear headscarves...change clothes in the ladies room.. and get in a taxi to the airport or if possible , drive to a friend's house and let them drive you to the airport.

All the other stuff is just stuff...replaceable...

Sounds like you’re doing the right thing. Have you told your mum? Can she keep the front on?

Hey op, thinking of you. I hope you are safe and hopefully away from him now 🤞

I hope you can escape him. Have you told your mum yet?

Thinking about you OP. I hope that you are ok💐

Hope you are safe OP- the longer you put off leaving, the more likely you are to start minimising the danger you and baby are in. Please take action.

💙

Op hoe are you????

Please don't try to prompt OP to respond.

She can only come on here when it's safe to do so, and putting pressure on her to update us is dangerous. When she can, she will. Don't post anything that might tempt/guilt her to take a risk. If he finds this thread she's in danger.

Does anyone know if OP started a new thread to tell us how she was? Wondering if I missed something as I’ve been thinking about her.

Not heard anything

Praying all goes ok 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Hugs & strength from here OP x

Oh op, hope your well and safe, do hope you have a plan,

Often think about you

Hoping you're in a safe place now, OP, and if not that you will be very soon x

Hope your ok OP. My abusive ex has been away from me for 3 weeks tomorrow. And having zero contact has made me stronger. I have days where I melt down. So confusing.

Hi OneSnug, do hope your well and safe,
Is your mum still visiting,

Take care op 💐

I keep thinking about this lady, too.
❤️

Are you ok? I hope you’ve found a way to get out.

I think of this op and worry about her, strange how pp leave these threads,