Could you forgive your partner / spouse if they called you

[sunshineandroses25]

A fat cunt.. during an argument?

I’ve been dating a man for 3 months, not exclusive yet but very strong feelings and we were definitely heading in that direction. We had a bit of a tiff last night, things got heated and he called me a fat cunt and blocked me.

He messaged me today and apologised profusely, said he didn’t mean it.

I’m not sure if I can get past it though. He knows I’m insecure about my weight, we’ve talked about it a few times. I’ve dated men in the past who treated me like shit and always put me down because of my weight. He knows all of this. I just feel like it was such a low blow and I would never comment on his looks (he has insecurities too). It’s also made me think is that what he really thinks of me…

He has been very transparent in telling you who he is and what his views are. Get rid fast.

And you’re a little prick would be my response. Well done for blocking. And what Chinese have you. Had?

Thank god for that. Your title worried me, hence the shouting. 😆 well done for blocking and treating yourself. He’s total scum.

Only got to page 4 but... Not normal for tits to bounce? Mine are only a handful and have bounce... What a weird way to try to hurt you. He sounds so ridiculously immature, I couldn't be arsed with his little attitude. If it's showing this early on, I highly doubt he'll get much better, more likely worse.

Just seen your update OP, well done 💪

I wouldn't forgive DH for that and I've invested over 25 years in the relationship and have a mortgage and children with him. For a man you've only known 3 months I would have no hesitation in blocking and moving on without any further contact.

That’s good @sunshineandroses25 , but why, oh why were you even wondering ifyou could get past it?

Do you normally accept such utterly shit behaviour from people who are supposed to care about you?

I’d have to ruin the patio digging him up to forgive him.

You’ve done the right thing, enjoy your Chinese 🍜

Block him, move on and your feeling can and do change . He has shown his true self !

This 100%

3 months in get rid of him.

Maybe he’s never seen a real pair of tits? The fakies on his porn vids are too firmly engineered.

Bin him off!!

Nope. Not after a lifetime together, let alone 3 months.
When they show you who they are, pay attention.

No no no no no

Lucky escape. Lucky lucky lucky escape

dont waste anymore time on him OP. You deserve better.

At three months, absolutely not.

I'd struggle in a long term relationship to be honest.

@sunshineandroses25 Hell No!

After 3 months it should be all "honey & sweetie & boo". Calling you a fat cunt. No way. He is showing you his true colours. Run.

When a man shows you who they are, believe them.

"who this?"

Block and delete

No, no and thrice no.

Why are you even accepting messages or calls from this scrote? Have some pride and self respect and walk away, you deserve better.

Well he's clearly not had much sex, the absolute tool. I'm a size 8 and my tiny empty sacks of boobs (thanks breastfeeding) flap around all over the place during sex 😂

Absolutely not. Sorry that happened to you

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