women who get involved with men they know are married or aren't free agents are just as bad as the men.
women are as manipulative and predatory as men in their own way.
in some cases i would actually say that women are worse. they are calculating and in my experience play the long game.
men tend to be pretty niave and stupid about it all. when they eventually notice that a woman is making a play for them they believe her that it's not serious, it can just be a bit of fun and no one ever has to know.
of course it's too late to go back once they realise they've been sucked in by a psycho witch with the morals of an alley cat who's well and truly got her claws into him.
then when they do eventually realise what a mess they are in, instead of being intelligent enough to own up and come clean to their family they weave an ever bigger web of lies to try and cover their tracks.
the only satisfaction from any of this is that eventually, when they have lost or nearly lost everything, they will come to hate the woman who engineered their downfall.
she just moves on to her next victim.
tbh, they're as bad as each other but the woman who deliberately sets out to get a guy who is attached is evil in my opinion.