Husbands food preferences driving me crazy - NEW THREAD

[Jessa85]

NEW THREAD for those following my thread from yesterday!

I will post the update of my conversation with my husband in a second.Original thread

Good luck today you amazing lady 🤩
And remember, that man has lost the best thing that ever happened to him. Through his ego, his arrogance and his ignorance he overlooked the funniest, compassionate, tenacious women I’ve come across in a long time. He could have had a loving family, a rocket woman by his side and a delicious home cooked meal most men would salivate after every night. Instead he choose money, and a dolled up low morals substitute.
Drab = Fab
You’ve got this superstar ✨

You’re brilliant and sending you so much strength and support for today @Jessa85 ❤️

@Jessa85

Today is the first day of your new life.

You've got this 💪

P.S aren't Pink Flamingos a bit like chicken underneath, especially when roasted?

Sending love and support for today.

You are incredible

Difficult day ahead of you @Jessa85 but also an important one, today is the start of a whole new better life. Stay strong ❤

Yes Queen!! You are doing amazingly well keep your head high think of the girls we are all behind you 🤩❤️

We will all be thinking of you and standing behind you, with our arms crossed, giving him the hard stare.

Good luck. A much better life is ahead. 💐

Been following from the start and just wanted to say, our household is rooting for you! You are inspiring countless women with your tenacity and courage.

Wishing you a peaceful and joyous New Life with your children.

Let this be a warning to anyone who treats their spouse like this. You will get your cumuppance!

Thinking of you today.
Stay strong.

@Jessa85 Hope it all goes well today.

Remember to breathe, try to eat a little and be prepared for a 'come down' when the worst is over and the adrenaline wears off.

PS can you have a mum friend on standby for an emergency playdate if you need to talk without the dds in earshot for a bit?

If he has wifi on the flight he can presumably make a call ? Be ready for that
Food Luck...

Jessa, today you and your girls start a brand new life. It will be scary and bumpy to start but you will all be absolutely fine. You have a fabulous family who support you irl as well as us lot!!

No words for Mr Beige Food. He will no doubt be flying as we speak, sitting smugly in his seat thinking about his floozie and their upcoming Ariabian Nights life together. We all know that won't be happening as they expect. He has so badly underestimated you, that it why the shock you give him today will completely upend him.

Good luck today, you have an absolute army of support from your new friends, we're no longer strangers. We all care genuinely. Mumsnet can be an absolute cesspit but there is a huge amount of genuinely good people on your side. Ignore the ones that can't read/comprehend.

Happy new life day to you and your girls, your future awaits!

I've been reading your thread and updates from the start Jessa. You are absolutely inspirational and worth 100 of your sad sack of a soon-to-be ex-husband.
All the luck in the world today, Mumsnet is cheering you on!

yhank goodness for your post two weeks ago! Or you could be oblivious now and it would be him emptying accounts and dropping the bombshell on you this weekend. But you’ve really got ahead of the game on his cheating nastiness!

Thinking of you today. I hope things go as well as they can do, and that you manage to remain calm and in control. Hugs for the inevitable tears later ❤️💐

@Jessa85 Sending you very best wishes for today, you have been amazing and completely dignified about this whole situation, you are so much better without this silly, little, man who has no idea what he’s about to lose. Your daughters will be so proud of you for setting them such a good example.

Good luck today! I don't think I've ever come back to a thread so often to check for updates!

oh, one other thing, and this has probably been said before, but if you do have any face to face conversations today, I’d set your phone to record it all. He will undoubtedly say things today that he denies later. You have the power of Mumsnet behind you. You’re incredible. X

I'd definitely do this! Massive make over before he gets back!

Rooting for you. Good luck today. If he doesn’t accept the divorce get him to tell you what he brings to your life. If he says ‘financial support’ say ‘don’t worry I’ll get that in the divorce’.

he certainly doesn’t bring loyalty, love and commitment!

Good luck! Rooting for you!

I'm another wishing you well today and in the future.

OP I have been following your updates and just want to say, you are absolutely amazing!!!
What a role model for your daughters and all of us. I just can say I have huge admiration for you.
Enjoy your freedom. You really deserve it.

I have followed both threads from the beginning. Such an amazing transformation. This is my first post on Mumsnet and I just came to say I'm wishing you all the best for a happier future.