HE ASSUMED I COULDN'T GO

[Flowercandy]

Hi i been watching a streamer for about 6 months got to know everyone in his lives etc all his gifters and new gifters i also gift occasionally. He's set up a group meet for everyone. He assumed i couldn't make it due to living 3 and half hours away but also didn't invite me. Just said shame i couldn't go but i wasn't outright asked. Is this a excuse that he didn't want me going. However none of us live bu each other where all dotted around the UK. I found it weird that i wasn't asked even if i were to say i couldn't go.

He doesn't want you there because he doesn't care about you. You are not his friend. You are a woman that gave him money and sent him photos that entertained him for a while. You don't "know his game" because if you did you wouldn't even be considering attending.

If he wanted you there, he'd have invited you. Of course he doesn't want you to block him...you have spent £00s on him and even if you genuinely have stopped for a while, he clearly thinks he can get you to start back up.

Leaving someone out is such a classic way to get them to scrabble for attention and you're playing right into it. He still has you hook, line, and sinker.

You could have been spending this money on your son but instead you're splashing out on diamonds for some bloke that is making it clear he doesn't want you but is willing to take you for a ride financially. Please, Op, you need some proper help.

He hasn’t invited you because he doesn’t want you to come. If he wanted you there he would have invited you, the distance thing is an excuse and not a very good one at that. The others (I’m assuming mainly girls) in the chat are also not your friends. They’re there to get to his inner ring only, they don’t care and will never care about anyone else in the chat. Stop talking to all of them .

I’ve just read your other thread too. Please don’t give this man any more money. Think yourself lucky that you haven’t been invited on this day out as he’ll only be trying to scam money out of those people. Try to work on yourself and remember that you’re worth more than this. Hopefully there will be a lovely person out there for you who will love and cherish you.

Remember this, you NEVER have to pay for someone to love you. If you’re not enough then bin them off straight away ♥️ ♥️

The op is tone deaf. One of the most frustrating threads I’ve ever read 😬

A woman on TikTok ended her life because she couldn’t keep up with the debt she got in gifting people. They even had holidays and hair extensions out of her and laughed all the way to the bank. When she died they didn’t care and said they didn’t tell her to gift but it’s vulnerable people with very little life who send them gifts for attention.

She left two children behind. Wake up and stop being foolish.

Oh dear. I read the original thread. You were given very clear advice from MNers - you're being groomed/scammed for money and to block this person. The same still applies. This person is no more interested in you, than he is any other viewer on his platform. He's invested in securing as many viewers as possible, and if he has to spend 4 hours chatting or flirt to gain those viewers to spend money, then he will. He's manipulating you. By not inviting you, it's making you feel less worthy, and he knows you are smitten with him, that you've spent considerable more money in the past and he's trying to reel you back in. Stop this utter madness. Seek some professional help, because this is not healthy.

@Flowercandy Not ONE person on this thread is telling you to go for it. Every single one of us is clearly explaining you are being manipulated, your behaviour isn't healthy and yet you STILL continue. Can you hit quote to actually reply and tell us why you think we're ALL wrong? Or actually reply to some of the points we've been making?

Why did you post ? People are answering you and trying to help.
You just keep repeating yourself.
He doesn't like you , he doesn't want to spend time with you, he only interacts with you for money.

Sorry I’m confused as I’ve never heard of gifting. You watch some bloke play a game online and you send him money and now he’s arranging to meet people in the hope they’ll give him even more money and you’re upset the conman hasn’t invited you to meet up with him so that he can get more money off you?

You need to block his game and stop giving your money to stranger and not sit watching other people play computer games like a 10 year old watching randoms pay Minecraft

Oh OP, you have a child. 😕

@Flowercandy He doesn't like you or care about you. He doesn't care if you "know his game." Sorry, but there it is. Keep obsessing if you want to, I guess, but it's all just a fantasy in your own mind.

OP do you really believe you’re the only one he’s video calling and getting explicit pics from? It’s all a game. He’s using you. Do yourself a favour and cut contact. Stop watching. Stop gifting. He doesn’t care about you, he cares about your money.

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Absolute lunacy.

He will have a list of the people who gift him the most money. He is playing ppl to get them to do the pick me dance. While he sits waiting for the money to roll in.

I'm gonna get ripped to shreds for this but anyway -
I'm a content creator - I do also have two jobs and I do this basically for fun as it centres around an interest of mine and it's built up quite a large following. Some of the messages I get are absolutely insane.
Op, what is this persons name? Dm it to me if you'd prefer, but I already have an idea of who this might be and if I'm correct, you need to listen to this threads advice and run a mile. If I'm correct, and going by this whole arranging a meet up thing I think I might be, this person is known for engaging in inappropriate behaviour with followers and asking for nudes etc. if it's the same person I'm thinking of, he's even been in my inbox asking for nudes and I don't even follow him.

Even If it isn't the same person - it might as well be as the behaviour is all the same.
This is what he does for a living and sadly and as harsh as this sounds, he doesn't care about you. Just leave the stream and move forward with someone who's worth your time and energy.

You're not listening to what you're being told. I sincerely hope you dedicate as must time and effort into your child as you do to this loser.

I am clearly showing my age, but what is 'gifting a streamer'? Is it sending people money for short videos for making one happy?

And I thought the TV licence was outrageous these days, especially as I only have a wireless.

how many times
Get in the real world!
he don’t give a stuff ,he just wants your money

Oh my goodness I remember your last thread. Please wake up, this is a scam.

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It's a person who goes live on a social media channel and either plays a live video game or chats about some inane bollocks to encourage their fans/followers to send them gifts of money. They generally thank the naive sender and move on five seconds later to continue gaming/chatting inane bollocks.

You need to get with the real world. You're an adult with a life of your own and you're living in cloud cuckoo land.

Flowercandy, ffs get your head out of your arse! These streamers, or whatever they call themselves DO NOT want you as friends, they want your admiration, your adoration, and YOUR MONEY! Stop comparing yourself to the other streamers, they are NOT your friends.

My advice, stop this nonsense altogether, get out and meet proper, genuine people and form friendships in a physical environment. Go to the swimming pool, go to the library, go to a cafe or pub, go to the park, do park run, join an exercise group, volunteer somewhere....................the list is endless but please stop all this bloody online crap and channel your energy into your own life.