HE ASSUMED I COULDN'T GO

[Flowercandy]

Hi i been watching a streamer for about 6 months got to know everyone in his lives etc all his gifters and new gifters i also gift occasionally. He's set up a group meet for everyone. He assumed i couldn't make it due to living 3 and half hours away but also didn't invite me. Just said shame i couldn't go but i wasn't outright asked. Is this a excuse that he didn't want me going. However none of us live bu each other where all dotted around the UK. I found it weird that i wasn't asked even if i were to say i couldn't go.

I totally remember it - he admitted it on his show and also in the online chat. I would imagine it's referenced online somewhere if you Google. It was possibly about four years ago maybe.

There are many, many professional counsellors out there. Why not ask your GP for details of people that they recommend? Meet the counsellors and get a proper in person feel for them.

If you have emailed any info to him just ask him to please delete it all.

He's to nice tho to be that kinda person i know im going on but he has alot of love on bigo and evening he gets so much love always talking bout mentel health and asking about ppls days etc Just genuinely and really nice guy maybe he's that nice he won't tell me straight. I don't like him in that way but we've al grown good bonds in his live even the females not "just him"

But many of them are not real. Some will be his followers, drawn in like you and he will play to his audience in order to make money, others will be friends who say positive things to keep momentum going. Think of them as like those who write fake reviews on amazon et al to promote products and sellers.

FFS, you sound deranged

Sorry you asked a questions everyone telling you the same things and the thread has turned into you defending some nutter who is using you for money . You used to be infatuated now you aren’t. Clearly you are. Strangest posts I have read. What’s more concerning is you have a child and couldn’t afford food. Someone needs to intervene here and if report you to SS for the neglect. As spending money and not having any for your child’s meals is neglect.

@BobbyBiscuits the BACP website is the best place to find an accredited counsellor in your area.
Some also work online. They have an ethical code of practice.

Even if he is nice you don't need to give him gifts or money!

And if was so concerned re.mh he wouldn't be soliciting nudes and tapes.

@Flowercandy

THIS IS NOT HIS REAL PERSONALITY.

THE WHOLE THING IS DESIGNED TO GET GULLIBLE PEOPLE TO PART WITH CASH.

YOU DO NOT KNOW THIS PERSON, YOU DO NOT HAVE A BOND WITH HIM - PLEASE
GROW UP.

Yeah i don't gift much now only small and that's every now and then, you wouldn't believe the love he gets if you watched his live it's hard hearing that he's just out for money but i do see what everyone is saying hence i wrote on here

It's quite something that this thread is still going.

I am losing the will.

No, I absolutely don’t think I’d believe the love he gets 🤢

Erm ok cool why would you give him your child's food money though ?

Do you see though? This is the same way your old thread went. Of course he’s in it for the money, that is literally why he is going live not out of the goodness of his heart. Some people have posted (across both threads) about how to break this addiction, and get help regarding boundaries, when you’re ready to do that, you should do that. Life is too short to be giving this much time and money to this grubby man who knows how to stream well to get money and is not your friend.

Yeah i don't gift much now only small and that's every now and then

But why do it at all?

So you do gift.

You take food out of your child's mouth to give to this person you've never met you doesn't give a shit about you.

Absolutely disgraceful.

I am beginning to despair. In September you gave this man everything you had, leaving nothing to feed your child.

If your child was taken away from you because of this, would you be happy to be left with what you do with this man? Would you be happy that all that was left, was a man pretending to give a shit about you and laughing at you as you gave him your last £20?

Your child has already endured abuse in your previous relationship, now you’re taking food out of their mouth to give to some twat online.

It is unthinkable. You need to wise up and grow up. Urgently.

Why do you need to gift him anything?

Do you see homeless people and help them? Donate to a food bank? Give to children's charities ? People that are in genuine need!

Or is it because you are starry eyed about some utter tit who streams drum and bloody bass?

At this point I hope there is an intervention in your life as you point blank refuse to see that you can stop this any time but are refusing to do so.

Only when your child is taken into care, you might decide to take control of your life and act with the best interests of your child.

You have reached a turning point in your life. You pick this grifter or you pick your sanity and the welfare of your child.

Please choose wisely.

I don't gift now only few pound and that's rare its not like i use to so im never skint no. Its just a friendly vibe and if you went in you'd see what i mean its hard to tslk bad about him

Please listen to everyone @Flowercandy. What you see on the videos really is just him playing everyone to get money. That's his job. He is not, and never will be, your friend. Neither are the other women in the chat, they are also out to get whatever they can, be that attention or otherwise. You need to stop following him, stop watching, stop chatting in the chat and do something else with your life, concentrate on your son and your own lives.

@PeggyMitchellsCameo thank you. Iain Lee claims to be on there. I trusted him so didnt check. But yeah, I think I will find someone else!

@Flowercandy If you have to gift someone to get their attention, even a few pounds, they are not your friend.

If someone accepts money from you, even though it means your child won't eat, they are not your friend.

Please get some help.

It doesn't matter if it's pennies, pounds or 50 notes. YOU. ARE. BEING. EXPLOITED.

Could you give this ‘relationship’ up completely, @Flowercandy?

Or are you addicted?

Do you honestly think this is the best way to spend your time and money? On a grifter who is just in this for the money, who is faking relationships with you and hundreds of other equally gullible people, in order to make money?

If everyone stopped sending him gifts, this man would stop what he was doing - no more streaming or chats or ‘relationships’ - I can absolutely guarantee it.

If you can’t give this up for yourself, do it for your child. They deserve so much better. Money you are spending on this leech could be better spent on your child!

Do you want your child to grow up thinking they have to BUY affection/friendship from people? That is a terrible lesson for you to teach your child!