Is it that much of a turn-off when a man never had a GF?

[SharpMember]

The only sex I ever had was what I paid for at age 30 after trying to get it the normal way all my life. I paid for it until I was like 34 but after that age it’s been the same as it was in my 20s. I am 39 now and still single simply because I lack experience in real relationships.

should I give up?

But yet you bang on about sex. That's not caring. That's lust.

Paying for it taught me what to do.

If you ever have a long term relationship it's likely to come up in conversation and you will be asked questions along the lines of have you been to a strip club or used a sex worker. So would you lie when asked directly?

No, I wanted her near me, I wanted to spend as much time with her as I could, take her places. I really cared for her.

Urgh.

Very few women will want a relationship with a man who thinks this way about sex, relationships and women.

Yes I’d lie. Because it wouldn’t matter at that point.

Obviously not!

She’ll know. She’ll know.

How would she know? Can’t read minds

She knows. She knows.

No you'd lie so that you wouldn't have to worry about the fact she might leave you. It would still matter to a women at that point

Also the fact you think paying for sex has taught you how to do it is depressing. You need an honest trusting relationship for that and based on your posts you don't deserve one

Why is everyone here against paying for sex. How else is a late virgin supposed to learn when women his age don’t want them?

You don't

It's your entitlement to sex that is the ick.

Plenty of people lie to their partners.

I don’t? Don’t what

What good has it actually ever done you, apart from one orgasm? You can't get a woman to do anything with!

You don't, you are not entitled to sex. It is not a human right. If you can't find someone who wants to have sex with you then you don't pay them for it.

With your attitude to women and sex you aren't going to get a partner. Best get yourself a dog for some companionship and write yourself off untill you can see women as more than a vagina on legs.

So why are you assuming she wasn't interested because you are sexually inexperienced? Did she tell you that? Or is that how you're justifying her lack of interest in you in the way you're interested in her?

We all, every single one of us, go through life at some point fancying someone who doesn't fancy us back, quite often several times. It has nothing to do with sexual experience. The right woman for you won't have a problem with your lack of experience. The right woman for you will ignite more in you than just lust and will feel the same about you.

All the others that don't work out are passing through your life to teach you what it is you do and don't want.

Don’t what?

And you can't see why women don't think you're a catch.

FYI, one session with a coerced, likely trafficked and abused woman does not make you in any way a decent lover. AT ALL. like on a scale of 1 to 10 you're at minus 20 because you clearly don't understand a single thing about women. You wasted your money.

"Why is everyone here against paying for sex. How else is a late virgin supposed to learn when women his age don’t want them"

You don't get to learn about having sex. You are not entitled to sex. It is not a human right. If you can't find someone who wants to have sex with you willingly then the correct option for anyone with self respect is not to force a vulnerable woman by paying them.

My boss make seven figures. He promotes women who sleep with him. What i did isn’t so different.

Okay, then how should’ve I found someone at that point?

You really are quite disgusting, real incel vibes

Women who sleep with your boss do so willingly, he isn't forcing them. They may be doing it for financial gain or maybe he is just dynamite in bed and worth it.