A woman made a pass at DH - Need help writing a text

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I want to send a beautifully written text to the woman who touched and proposed a BJ to my DH last night. I want to say wtaf, stay away from any social gatherings we will be at and leave the WhatsApp group.

Hit me with your best ones please

How about: don't go near my husband again or Il pull your head off....you bitch.
Usually the only language people like that understand.

So, what's the back story? How did this offer come to be?

Would suggest that you and he have a conversation about his own behaviour as I don't suppose it was purely unsolicited? Was drinking taken ...??

He's your DP/DH not her. Really, what do you think it'll achieve?

Why? Presumably your DH told her to do one? Not really necessary for you to create more drama, just give her a wide berth.

I really don’t believe the majority of posters wouldn’t say a word about this. Especially as she’s someone you socialise with.

Her DH has already dealt with it.

I wouldn't send her a message, I would be messaging the friendship group on WhatsApp!
Morning All,
So xxxx has form for offering oral to the husbands of our group.
Last night it was my DHs turn. She was told no, so lock up your husbands girls.
This isn't the first time, is it and tag her. You're absolutely shameless by the way.

I wouldn't be condoning her actions by keeping them a secret so she can work her way through your friends husbands.

Would people here really be happy to say nothing and continue socialising with a woman who has propositioned their husband?

Course they wouldn’t, they are just being contrary.

Best laid plans gang aft aglay or something. This could blow up in your face if you contact her. Your DH might not be impressed at making it public. Reactions in general might not be as anticipated. Be wary.

Me either. As a friend of mine, trying it on with my husband? Nah. I'd be making it clear exactly who she was to all and sundry.

Perhaps your friendship group needs to rethink including her in drinking events.

My husband is a grown up and does not need me to message people on his behalf.

Sorry sorry I've been bingeing on Rivals it took me back to the 80s.
Please forget I said that.

I'd probably just make it clear if you see her again. Unfortunately calling her out may just push her into lying about him being the bad guy and draw you into a place that may wonder if there was more to this behaviour. But I'd certainly be telling my other hitched girlfriends from this group

I really don’t believe the majority of posters wouldn’t say a word about this Especially as she’s someone you socialise with.

Can you imagine the reverse? A man from our circle tried it on with me but I rebuffed him. DH is happy to act like nothing happened. It’s weird and nothing to do with thinking you own someone.

Blow up in your face !

Maybe they're just not insecure?

It's for your DH to deal with, not you. You have the opportunity to come out of this looking extremely classy - do nothing. Nothing says confident and secure more than rising above it and saying nothing. Let your DH send the text.

X, dh told me what you did last night. I understand he’s not the first to be on the receiving end of your behaviour. Sexual harassment applies to women’s behaviour as well as men’s, and makes all of us uncomfortable. Stop it.

My husband is a grown up and does not need me to message people on his behalf.

the OP is replying on her behalf…

All you’re going to do is feed her ego and make her think that she’s got a chance & that there’s cracks in your relationship.

You’d be better off using the energy on your DH to reward his honesty & self discipline.

To add, if I was sexually harassed, I’d definitely want my dh to be loudly in my corner - this is no different

why are these husbands so defenceless they need your input?
just leave it

"I understand you asked to suck my husband's dick. Unfortunately he rejected your advances. It would have saved me 5 minutes, I've got other chores to do."
DO NOT SEND THIS

What a sad state of affairs where you would lower yourself to fighting over a useless man who couldn't give the woman the message himself!

She is not your profile. Your pathetic excuse for a man is.

And if she does she will look very insecure or just ridiculous.