Would you leave a lazy husband

[Pennyduke564]

Would you leave your husband if he is lazy if he doesn't help you with the house work and does not want to work and you work fall time and have kids and your husband is always starting arguments with you

I'd fuck him right off.

Same

Yes!

Hell yes! Drop the dead weight and fly.

The short answer is yes; the longer answer is yes, if he doesn’t make a single effort to improve or change.

I would probably stop doing anything for him (cooking, laundry), move all my money into my own account (but continue to pay all bills etc) and then when he notices ask him why he is still there.

Yes.

Absolutely. Because a man doing that doesn't love or respect you. It goes further than just the inconvenience of extra work on you, it's what it represents.

Yes so how can you be helped into leaving him?.

Absolutely

I would have left him yesterday.

Yes I would and I did,

So he doesn't work or do anything in the house ....

Yes of course I'd leave ..

Yes. He's made himself redundant hasn't he?

Yes he's like a child except children usually grow up and get mature and start contributing

Yes. I wasn't raised by a lazy man, my much older brothers are not lazy husbands....laziness isn't manly to me so I would have the total ick.

Yes, I’ve done it twice

(in my defence husband 2 assured me he wasn’t lazy when we got together. but he was. So I left him too)

I am going to be telling him that he needs to start helping out with the house work or I will be leaving and getting divorced

Nothing and the kids are 12 year old son 2 14 year old daughters and a 16 year old son and he is 54 and I am 54

Why doesn't he work?

He does not work and we have been married for 30 years

Even your first sentence is telling, OP.

He shouldn't be "helping you" with the housework. It isn't your job that he should "help" if he sees fit. It is 50% his job.

Yes. Thankfully I've never attracted a work shy man, but yes. He'd be gone pronto!

He hasn't worked for 30 years?! But why?