He is high functioning and does have a tendency to lecture every so often. His dad has given him a bollocking for it in the past.
Anyway we spent 10 days together, the longest amount of time ever so far, and he was disagreeable about 30% of the time.
Examples:
- we were talking about a Robert De Niro film and I said 'yeah I like him but prefer Al Pacino'. Him: what's the point in preferring him, why can't you just appreciate each actor separately?
- me: well most male birds are more colourful than female birds for mating reasons. Him: hmm I don't think you can say that for sure without the stats
- why are you having sugar in your coffee?
Last night I finally said I'd had enough of being disagreed with all the time as it made me feel undermined. He said he'd take it on board as he doesn't want to upset me but this morning was at it again!
We've had such a lovely relationship so far and I don't understand why he has to oppose me all the time.