Anybody else desperately trying not to contact a guy?

[FuckSakeGetAGrip]

I am, and it's honest to god wrecking me.

Please tell me someone else is struggling too.

I'll hold your hand if you'll hold mine...

Both good responses. I will find it hard and even miss him but it’s definitely the right thing to do for everyone

I said hello and hope you had a good relaxing holiday. That I’ve been really really good thank you. No kisses or anything and hopefully it will be a quick polite exchange. If it carries on I’ll do what @LizaMinnellisFurCoat said. Thank you both. I couldn’t do this without the support of this group

And he’s muted so I am not going to look again unless I get a normal message from someone

I say block him @namechangeforthis5 ! It's so much better not wondering if they are gonna contact you.

I’m too nice to do that as well 🤦🏻‍♀️

Not saying any of you aren’t of course lol

I guess I care too much what people think of me

@JustWannaBeWorthIt sorry you’re struggling 💐 Hang in there

Thanks @namechangeforthis5

Something funny just happened that would have made him laugh, but I can't send it to him.

I just can't understand how he can have nothing to say to me, nothing at all, after everything, everything we went through, and it was a lot.

I guess it mattered to me and not so much to him; it really hurts even after this long.

Maybe he knows he’s upset you. He sounds like he should be telling you that though.

I don't know. We had a conversation that went too far, where feelings became evident, and ever since then he's backed off.

Which he is 100% right to do. And I can't blame him; obviously I wasn't capable of it.

Well try to focus on the fact it’s for the best. I do know how you feel. I’m the same and day to day we are just like friends but there’s this underlying thing which will lead to disaster so you have done the right thing and remember that

@namechangeforthis5 it wouldn't have to be forever just tell him you need some space to process things. No contact is the only way.

Don't think that it's like your friend ghosting you it's not the same thing at all! You wouldn't be being unkind.

I guess.

What's he blocked you on @JustWannaBeWorthIt ?

Nothing; he just never texts now. If I text him he'll reply but that's it. And the tone is different, you know.

Arr sorry I'm getting mixed up. How long has it been like that for?

So brief text exchange and I should be pleased but I find myself trying to think of something to say. Ohh god! What is wrong with me

Don't get sucked back in!

Although to be fair I totally would.

That did make me smile as that’s why we’re all here. I won’t though.

Maybe a month, six weeks.

Do you feel any different @JustWannaBeWorthIt

I hate that like either reply and be nice or don't bother! Like what's the point!

Less frantic. Sadder. A bit relived. Embarrassed. It's a fucking mixed bag. Mostly I just miss the fuck out of him. I liked him in my life.

I just made the mistake of glimpsing at his Facebook for two seconds and god damnit but he is handsome.