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Orgasms through intercourse alone - common or not?

112 replies

Cosmogirl · 01/04/2008 20:57

How common is it for women to reach orgasm through penetrative sex alone?? Was discussing this with a couple of my girlfriends over some vino and the consensus seemed to be that it isn't that common.....

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BetteNoir · 01/04/2008 20:59

Not a common experience amongst the womenly folk in this neck of the woods either.

RiojaLover75 · 01/04/2008 21:03

No not here either!

gagarin · 01/04/2008 21:04

Rare as hen's teeth

bonkerz · 01/04/2008 21:05

not unless im using a little bullet!!!!

SmoothandWilkie · 01/04/2008 21:06

Nope although all my mates claim to

artichokes · 01/04/2008 21:07

Just for clarification, are you asking (a) who can only achieve orgasm through penetrative sex? or (b) who can achieve orgasm through penetrative sex eithout foreplay?

JingleyJen · 01/04/2008 21:07

can but takes more time and patience than I usually have tends to be more of a before or after.

Sidge · 01/04/2008 21:08

I do most times.

LilyMunster · 01/04/2008 21:09

i have read that its not common.

and in the course of my own, er, research, i have found that to be the case also.

bloody lovely, but not a common thing, no.

ScarletA · 01/04/2008 21:10

I do every time too. Though obviously need a bit of foreplay first

Cosmogirl · 01/04/2008 21:12

Artichokes - (a)....foreplay is allowed but not assisting during the act IYSWIM

I have managed it once but not since....Must have been a fluke! I am more of a before/after girl.... Was just curious how common it is - whether I was out of the ordinary or not.

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cyteen · 01/04/2008 21:14

I must be a freak then, cos it's never been a problem for me. In fact I'm more likely to orgasm through penetration than oral.

artichokes · 01/04/2008 21:15

Ah, well in that case I am happy to report that I usually do.

Cosmogirl · 01/04/2008 21:16

D'oh - sorry Artichokes - read your post wrong. I didn't mean only achieving via intercourse not other means.....so (b) really - someone who can orgasm via penetrative sex.

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eternalstudent · 01/04/2008 21:17

That's the one that works most frequently here. I have 3 kinds. They are all rare though.

bristols · 01/04/2008 21:17

Nope. Never!!

Cosmogirl · 01/04/2008 21:19

Cyteen - not a freak...many would envy you! Thinking of the biology of it, I suppose it makes more sense to not be able to orgasm through penetration alone as the clitoris is more external than internal.....I think.....correct me if I'm wrong!

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mrsleroyjethrogibbs · 01/04/2008 21:19

on the odd occasion and only in a certain position but yes it does happen

MehgaLegs · 01/04/2008 21:19

Always, but only with DH and since having babies.

tearinghairout · 01/04/2008 21:21

Nope, not here. Mrs leroy, er, care to elaborate? Am always willing to be educated!

foofi · 01/04/2008 21:22

Works for me.

Cosmogirl · 01/04/2008 21:22

MehgaLegs - interesting! Planning to ttc end of the year...

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hatrick · 01/04/2008 21:22

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Mumcentreplus · 01/04/2008 21:23

I do occassionally...but they are like orgasms..lol...I'm an oral lady...

TillyScoutsmum · 01/04/2008 21:24

Only if I'm on top

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