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I don't know what to do for the best.
I found out my close friend’s husband has been having an affair through another friend that doesn’t know her as well. She has seen screen shots of messages. My close friend and cheating husband have three young children together and are child hood sweethearts. I don’t want to tear their family apart. There is also a possibility she already knows. I had a cryptic message implying things haven’t been great between her and her husband but things are improving.
She has a right to know but I don’t want to be the one to ruin her life. She is currently on a luxury family holiday.
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Found out friends husband cheating should I tell her?
Sarahnmills · 29/03/2024 12:51
Nn9011 · 29/03/2024 12:56
Only tell if you actually have the proof to show her. It potentially will turn into him making you the bad guy if you can't prove what you're saying. Also be prepared the friendship may be damaged because it's easier to blame you than her husband.
ElleLeopine · 29/03/2024 13:10
Why does the other friend have screenshots of messages?
Sarahnmills · 29/03/2024 13:17
My friend works with a girl who is friends with the girl he has been cheating with. She showed my friend the screen shots her friend sent to her. The girl that he was cheating with didn’t know he had a wife and kids. Does that make sense 🤣
ElleLeopine · 29/03/2024 13:10
Why does the other friend have screenshots of messages?
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