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Ladies in your 30s how often do you and your other half have sex?

129 replies

raspberryginplease · 08/02/2024 09:28

I know there is no right and wrong amount of sex to have. I am in a sexless relationship in my 30s and wondering how normal it is?

We havent been intimate since November 😪

OP posts:
Takemetosunshine · 13/02/2024 16:40

I'm 39 and DP 44. One DSD who is with us 2-3 nights a week.

We have sex most days - either when we wake up in the morning or at night. For us it's a hugely important part of our relationship and couldn't imagine it ever not being but I know everyone is different!

BugofLove · 13/02/2024 16:47

4 - 5 times a week, I have two children at home and one at uni.

I wouldn't stay in a two year relationship with such infrequent sex. Your drives are never going to match up and I would be walking away before getting more committed.

AmberLurker · 23/07/2024 23:58

4/6 a month my husband does work away though would be more often if not, 37 & 39 2 kids

NotSentFromIphone · 24/07/2024 00:28

Sorry OP, he's either gay or asexual. Maybe time to cut your losses?

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