Help, husband pees all over the floor and gets angry when I point it out!

[Unicornsarefab]

I'm aware of the male physiology and understand that sometimes things don't go where they should. Do your men pee? Is it your job to clean it up or do they do it?

I am surrounded by boys in my house, I'm trying to teach my kids that it's polite to make sure the toilet is left clean after every use. Got into an argument with husband the other night after he had just used the loo and I went in after him, there was pee all over the floor, I called him on it and he got annoyed at me and said some horrible things and said I treated him like a child! I told him he was disrespectful and how could I teach the boys if this was his attitude. He got annoyed again and stormed off to bed. No, he didn't clean his mess first.

How do I try to communicate that this is not OK. I'm tired of keeping my mouth shut to save arguments. Any help appreciated.

Buy some Depends for men.

You left him before. He promised the earth to get you back. It didn't last. He can't be bothered to make an effort for your benefit. In fact quite the opposite 0 he appears to be going out of his way to upset you. It's like he's testing how crap he can treat you and enjoying upsetting you. He's literally pissing on your floor, and walking away.

he's disgusting.

IME it isn't normal for men to pee on the floor. It certainly isn't normal for them to leave it there if an accident happens. It isn't like he doesn't know it's happening. He knows it's happening and he knows it bothers you. He just doesn't care. Or worse, he's doing it on purpose to show you that he doesn't care.

Please leave him. You deserve better and your sons certainly deserve not to have that around as a role model. Even if you have 50/50 parenting, you can explain to your boys why you left so they can understand his way of living isn't acceptable.

If he can't aim properly he should sit down. I can't believe he's not even embarrassed about it and expects you to clean it up! Having read your updates, who cares if he struggles if you split! He sounds disgusting. Sorry you are dealing with this.

Hi everyone. Thanks so much for all the comments. Here's an update, we have now seperated for the last time and told the kids who were ok actually. It took me a while to come to this decision but I know I deserve better. Thanks for all your help/advice. It's amazing how easily confused you can sometimes get in situations then look back and wonder what you were thinking!

Good for you

@Unicornsarefab You’ll all be fine! You’ve made the right decision, hope you feel happier.

I'm so pleased to see your update! I remember your thread and was rooting for you. Well done - onwards and upwards

@Unicornsarefab

The best is yet to come. Well done.

Well done for your last update, that sounds like the best thing you can do for you and your family. Most men would be mortified if you discovered their pee on the floor and certainly not leave it. Enjoy your new clean bathroom.

Great news. The disgusting twat can now clean his own piss up.

About damn time. Onwards and upwards.

Sweet thank god,
Onwards and upwards,

Your husband's attitude and behaviour in regards of peeing issue

was like a pissing version of dirty protest that can happen at men's Prisons...

Well done, enjoy your life and congratulations on finding your self respect.

That's a good update. Onwards and upwards! Wishing you all the very best.

That must have been so hard, but you did it. Well done. Onwards and up from here you marvellous woman 👏💪🏾

Well done op glad your ok