Oh gosh I have too many.
Come on feed your son , feed your son [ their grandchild] every half an hr which irritated me. His only 2 and if we didn't give anything as we have a routine she give him breakfast 7 times . At least try to when weetabits isn't good for stomache more than once then buy stacks and chocolate and give to my toddler. I'm like no. I gave up she was annoying and ridiculous. I'd of lost it.
Then she like when my partner comes have dinner or lunch ready and hand him juice. That's what you should do. Me thinking in my head. No its the modern world and your living in the old days. Your son know what I'm like over 11 years we been together.
Then she say you can't wash steel which you make chappatti in at night it's bad luck. In my head I'm like no we have been doing it for years washing everything up. Just a headache.
Then she comes up that you can't wash your hair on these days as of her beliefs. I washed my hair all my life on the days she said don't wash your hair. Then she shouts at me for washing my hair on days she believes these traditions which I don't believe in. I told my partner she said that and he had a go at her.
Then when I wasn't looking they thought it was ok to cut my sons hair . No I had a go at them. Then they stopped touching his hair. Then they kept mentioning it especially father in law. I was so upset and they always twist the conversation and make it look like it wasn't their fault.
Another thing is going through my belonging I every room. Invading everything. And I don't tell them to re organise the room or cupboard and they do it anyway. So frustrating.
Then mother in law tries to take my purse to take with her back to India as their wasn't anything in their. I told her no I got it as a gift. She didn't even ask if she could take. She has a nerve to do that.
Then she wears my neclace which my partner gave me without asking. Then I think she was going to take it. I got so upset. I took it off personally.
Then she wanted a make up brush she went upstairs and took my make up brush case without me knowing I saw it. I took it. It a gift from my friend. She was laughing at e everything.
Also she stole two of my Necklaces I only noticed when she left.
She also ignores my mum now. My mum was talking to my nephew and I was. She didn't even say hi. She just said Harvey is ill and talking to others near her and ignored and hung up the phone. So rude. She use to text my mum often but now nothing. My mum even bought her a dress as a gift for £150 and she said no thank you.
Every time she came over my mum by mother in law either ignored her or went for walk if my dad wasn't their or my aunties.
She is so jealous of us and she ignored my aunty on my wedding day.
I didn't like how she kept insisting on me cooking the way she likes. I felt so uncomfortable. Also my friend who is like a sister cooked a few times she made comments about her she is not a great cook. When she is a better cook that my mil. My mil only like her cooking and doesn't like change in cooking and cooking is burnt everytime.
When I made English flavour tasting food she says why didn't you put spices.
Once i ordered food for everyone. Father in law shouts at me saying lots of things at me. I told them not to cook. Their saying they'll cook. Next minute they shout at me and I told my partner. Then after they eat without saying anything the food I ordered .
Even with pizza when we took them out they complained on how the pizza was made and its bad for you. I was thinking why are you eating it then. Then I make noodles or pasta for me and my son and extra . Then they say its not good for you they make it and put bad things in manufacturing the product. I said not in the UK. Then they eat it all up. Then they say don't give their grandchild noodles.
I went to see my mum and they didn't like it kept calling me within a 2 hrs. Think they were jealous of me seeing my mum. Then after a while I got a taxi wasn't feeling well didn't want to eat. Then mother in law shouts at me its expensive ear the chappatti I made for you. You ate with your mum didn't you. I got so upset.
Also they throw rubbish in garden and showing my son who is two to through rubbish outside and started washing their hands on curtains and wiping their noise on curtain I watched them then had a go at them. Reason colds can happen. So disrespectful ,unconsiderate and unhygienic.
Also firstly they come and show she clean the pans. Like I'm not clean and have common sense. They didn't have any common sense on how cleaning work. The house was a mess and also kichern. Everytime I clean it it was a disgusting mess.
They shouted at me about the my mum and cousin we planned to do my make up at a hotel before wedding and after for reception. She had a go at me like she rules me and shouted at me. Then said a bad thing about my mum. I will take everything out of your mum. I was like you don't say anything like that about my mum and that is very rude and they walked away .
Thankfully they are gone back to India.
I really hope they never come back to the UK or I don't have to go India.
Just want then far far away forever.
They kept and mentioning to take my son their grandchild by himself to India i said no. They said it again to my partner. I told my partner why I'm upset. Never want them here again!