What has a guy done that instantly made you lose interest?

[LusaBatoosa]

The ones that spring to mind:

• Thought Jordan Peterson 'had some interesting ideas.
• Used 'female' as a noun.
• Let me pay half. I always offered, but if you let me, there would be no second date.
• Really poor spelling and grammar. Not the occasional mistake or lapse (we all make them), practicaly unintelligible messages.
• Said he 'wasn't a reader'
• Was a picky eater.
• Was teetotal.
• Was religious.
• Wore a chain.
• Didn't drink water.

The dating pool has pee in it and, on top of that, I'm fairly unreasonable. I'm very happy I met my husband. 🤣

@LusaBatoosa , I'm with you on the unintelligible messages. When I was doing a bit of OLD, 4 years ago, no luck by the way, I used that as my perfect mechanism for sifting. Such a turn off, and I'm a bloke!

Sorry, you asked about guys and I'm a guy, so probably shouldn't be posting anyway!

Boasted about how much he earned.

Would have put me off even if he'd been a high earner. But he wasn't...

He had a skin fade up the back of his head and I noticed that the hair that was left was in a colander pattern of holes.

He had had a hair transplant a few years before and the holes were where it had been taken from.

I don't know why but I seemed so twee and vain it put me off completely and forever!

Revealed his small cock

Instant turn off

@HappiDaze That will do it 🤣🤣

Ok this happened when I was 15 but still....He turned up wearing white socks and his trousers were a good inch above his shoes so all I could see were those white socks!

Jordan Peterson. One of those people that thick folks think is intelligent.

He revealed that ''instantly''

Bad table manners.
Being mean to waitresses or any other woman
Smoking

Instant turn offs for me:
Telling me what I should wear
Opening his mouth weirdly wide when eating
Being too keen too soon
Not compatible kissing techniques!

@concernedalot Paying is typically contraversial, tough for us blokes. No problem paying at all, but the prevailing trend when I was on OLD, was going half which makes sense when It's a first date, women really prefered to go halfers. It made sense, because I didn't want them to think that they owed me anything. Seems to be a generational thing.

if he sent a dick pic
someone who is really clingy needs to spend every min with you
keeps talking about their ex and how they hurt them 🙄

Went on a date with a drop dead gorgeous guy.

He said he was surprised that as I knew it was a date that I wasn't wearing a skirt.

Unlike that Jordan Person whom a PP would find really off putting
🤔

@Yahyahs22

Darkdiamond
Jordan Peterson has a lot of really interesting ideas. Which ones do you object to, OP?

I was just thinking the same thing. As a female there's a lot I quite like about him. The way he talks about bringing up children being the main one

AGREE
I have learnt a lot listening to JP.

Turn offs;
Bad kissers
Bad hygiene
Arrogance
Not liking dogs
Smoking weed
Men who preen themselves more than I do 😅

@SmudgeButt Yeah, skirts not obligatory for a first date. Why would anyone get into clothing options when you've never met someone, or even if your very familiar, for that matter.

One date 'forgot' wallet on first date, so i bought him a pint and left. Now i wouldn't buy him a pint. Id just leave and say we can arrange another date when you find it. Then not go on another date.

Another date , we ordered food and oc i was willing to pay for mine, but it was combined , i paid because he was in the loo (i know lol)...and i said yours was £ he said oh i will buy next meal lol. (Presumptuous). Nooo. Now i dont pay full bill. If he cant pay his, get in the kitchen and wash pots, id pay for mine and go.

When i said i worked for women's aid, first thing after saying that they said 'what about men, what have they got for equivalent '. Typical... and not in an interested way ..more like .'but what about the men!!'. This was 2 men i went on dates with.

These are no nos to me.

Kissed me goodbye as I went off to work and still had an unswallowed spoonful of muesli in his mouth 🤢

Dirty fingernails, not work related, but grime. Ick

That’s an excellent list, imo. Especially the lazy first dates thing. I just wouldn’t go. 😒

Aww gawd yes…. Back in the early eighties, guy I was keen on wore these, saw him recently they would suit him now lol

All genders welcome! 😊

"Let me pay half. I always offered, but if you let me, there would be no second date."

What the actual fuck?!