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Argument 4 days ago..no contact but hasn't changed profile picture of us

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Littlemisslonley · 30/07/2023 19:15

Sounds childish I know....

We had a huge argument 4 days ago over contact he's having with his female friend which I deem inappropriate sending her love hearts and saying stuff like "you look gorgeous darling" lots of voice notes and videos sent to each other. We argued he left and since then we have had no contact however he's not unfriended me on socials or changed his WhatsApp picture from a picture from us and it's driving me insane as to what this means?!

It sounds so childish writing it but I really don't know where I stand anymore with this

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Littlemisslonley · 22/08/2023 19:36

sodthesodoff · 22/08/2023 17:17

But he's still got all the power here

Just block and move on

You know he's got no intention of giving you your daughters stuff. He's making you wait deliberately.

He also knows this leaves him in your thoughts

I take it from that post you're not going to block him and still holding out that he'll just nicely hand your stuff over?

I see what your saying and I do agree tbf he does have the power at the moment...

My plan was to leave him unblocked and if my stuff hasn't come back a week after he's back I was then going to block him and replace the stuff I need too dd bike and ds switch game thingie.

He has messaged me on Friday saying he got his ds switch back in the post and thanking me I didn't reply I haven't replied to him or sent him any messages apart from last Monday 1 week ago now to say probs stuff at sisters etc

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Sueveneers · 24/08/2023 13:17

Littlemisslonley · 22/08/2023 16:36

I can't because I have no time without DD and if I drive over there she will get excited thinking she's going to his house and seeing his son so don't want to bring him back into her mind

Luckily the weather's been awful so she hasn't missed her bike because we haven't been able to go anywhere that would require her to have it so for now it's OK and next week it the end of the summer holidays anyway which Is typical

If I could get 1hour and a 30/45 mins spare (we live a fair whack away from each other) without dd I'd go and get my stuff alone but no childcare or support for that unfortunately hence why I asked he took it to my sisters

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Why not leave your daughter at sisters and go on to his place, then pick your daughter up on the way back home?

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Littlemisslonley · 24/08/2023 13:20

Sueveneers · 24/08/2023 13:17

Why not leave your daughter at sisters and go on to his place, then pick your daughter up on the way back home?

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She's not available till late so it's never really an option. However sister has said she will pick up next week should he not drop my stuff

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