My husband took naked pics of me while I was sleeping and posted them.

[Abagail]

My heart is broken! I woke up the other morning to my husband taking pictures of me on his phone. At first I was just frozen but then I pretended to wake up. He kissed me and said go back to sleep baby and left the room. I didn’t know what to do, so I just pondered it in my heart for a few days. When I asked him about it at first he lied but then he told me the truth. I feel so hurt and sick inside. I have never been alone in my life but I might have to leave him because every time I look at him I feel disgusted. I don’t know if I am being over sensitive because I am looking at the situation through the eyes of someone with childhood trauma.(which he knew about) We have 2 boys and he is an amazing father. They need him in their lives. I am broken!

It’s a crime.

it’s a betrayal.

it’s abuse.

where did he post the images?? I’m so sorry, I couldn’t forgive the horrendous abuse of any respect, the law, my marriage.

You are absolutely not being over sensitive. Your husband broke your trust in the most vile way to trade your image as a commodity.

Remember that.

This is a total abuse of trust. If you decide yiu don't want him.in your life it doesn't mean he can't be in their's. Where had he posted them?

He's a pig.
Do you know what he's done with the pictures?

Posted them where?!

I couldn't forgive this.

Sickening.

Posted them where? On the internet?!!

That is abuse, you are not being sensitive at all.

Omfg you poor thing. What a violation. No, he is not a good father if he can do this to the mother of his child. Your feelings are completely valid. You should probably go to the police with this. He has put these pictures online. Unforgivable.

Posted where?

Posted them online? That's a criminal offence. Dirty fucker. Report him and then get the hell away from him.

How absolutely revolting.

If he's posted nudes of you online without your consent, that's illegal.

I could not remain in a relationship with such a devious creep.

OP an amazing father would not be taking naked pictures of their children’s mother and posting them without her consent.

This is an abusive man who needs to understand his disgusting actions have consequences. What he has done is against the law and he can be charged for it.

He's not an amazing father.

Amazing fathers don't do things like this.

You've had a massive shock. The person who you trusted the most has betrayed you in a most heinous way.

You need to leave him and you also need to tell the police what has happened. You need professionals to comb through his phone and electronics to find out where these digital images of you have gone and he needs to be convicted for sharing them so he is hopefully prevented from doing this to anyone else in the future.

I know this is going to seem like an insurmountable hurdle right now, but it is so important that you leave him for your own safety. You know you can never sleep safely next to him again.

LTB and smash his phone on the way out.

(if only that would delete the pics from the universe)

I feel sick for you. This is literally a crime.

he is an amazing father
An amazing father wouldn’t do this to the mother of his children.

Where did he post them?
sorry but I’d leave in a shot- he’d make my skin crawl- do you want your sons to have him as a role model

Posted them? Where?
He’s not a good father. Is this what you want your boys to grow up thinking is ok?

He won’t tell me the site he posted them on. He said it doesn’t stay forever. I have never been on any sites like that so I am not sure. I am going to ask again. Thanks for your response.

he is not an amazing father! He is the exact opposite

I would be calling the police. I am so sorry this has happened to you.

So he has posted them somewhere?

You need to get the phone. Delete them now

Then make plans to leave (or for him to go, you'll never trust him again)

Ok I amend my answer- I’d call the police and leave him!

you need to involve the police

^^This