My husband took naked pics of me while I was sleeping and posted them.

[Abagail]

My heart is broken! I woke up the other morning to my husband taking pictures of me on his phone. At first I was just frozen but then I pretended to wake up. He kissed me and said go back to sleep baby and left the room. I didn’t know what to do, so I just pondered it in my heart for a few days. When I asked him about it at first he lied but then he told me the truth. I feel so hurt and sick inside. I have never been alone in my life but I might have to leave him because every time I look at him I feel disgusted. I don’t know if I am being over sensitive because I am looking at the situation through the eyes of someone with childhood trauma.(which he knew about) We have 2 boys and he is an amazing father. They need him in their lives. I am broken!

Sleeping naked? Go back to sleep baby? Two kids? 🤔

Absolute scumbag. Any image once its ‘out there’ can be saved by random pervs and redistributed for years and decades to come.

What a horrible disgusting man. This is absolutely unforgivable, you are not being over sensitive at all. For me, this is worse than cheating, I would be calling the police and making sure any images are erased and ending the relationship as of now.

Something similar happened on Reddit. A woman who wore the full face hijab had her husband do this, but with hidden camera video of them having sex. It was strangers seeing her hair and face, which she said was her own choice to cover for religious reasons, plus everything else.

She was worried how her family would respond, but they and her in laws rallied round her. They divorced and HE's the pariah.

They stay forever and have probably been downloaded by thousands of men by now.

😂

Report this to the police.

This creep wouldn't remain my husband for very much longer.

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2022/jan/06/i-have-moments-of-shame-i-cant-control-the-lives-ruined-by-explicit-collector-culture

perhaps you might say that to each of the women impacted in this article.

or the poor French woman repeatedly raped at the behest of a loving husband.

you are disgusting.

@Eyesopenwideawake leave him.

This is very serious OP and you must make him leave now. Immediately.
I would tell him he has to tell you where they are posted OR you are calling the police to make him tell you. Then make him leave.
There are sites where images and videos are swapped and traded. The men active in them egg each other on and they get deeper and deeper into it. You need to find out where they are posted and also carry out a deep search for hidden cameras etc in your home.

The man you married is not who you think he is. You need to protect yourself and your children from him. I am so sorry.

This is seriously shocking. I feel so worried for you! You absolutely should contact the police immediately.

I'd absolutely be phoning the police.

What a cunt. LTB

This is not the action of a loving husband/ good dad / loving son etc etc
Not wishing to add to your hurt - it may not be the first time

Get some legal help / the police

He is unlikely to tell you where he posted it and so it may be a rabbit hole to ask him - this distracts from the real question to ask him
’ what is the reason you have disrespected me and broken the family?’

Dont ask why - he will have excuses eg it’s just a laugh, everyone does it, your frigid

You did not consent - he is 100% in the wrong

please get help
and support

I couldn't forgive this but what has made it a thousand times worse is him refusing to tell you where he posted them.

I'd be going to the Police, OP. He needs to understand the enormity of what he's done.

How will you ever be able to trust him again?

Tell him that unless you are told exactly what he took them for and where they have been posted, and show you, you will contact the police.

Then contact the police either way.

This is abuse on all levels. Plus he puts you in dangerous position where other men who know him might think he is offering you for ....that is the most bizarre thing a husband would do. You need to leave

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He doesn't need to tell you, when you phone the police and they investigate they will find out for you op.

If he is this perverted it's not far of a stretch to imagine him taking naked pictures of your children and posting them, perhaps he gets paid or perhaps he is a disgusting pervert getting kicks or both but at the end of the day he has violated you at least for sure and he needs to be arrested.

Wow, why is this man still in your home, why is he not in a Police cell ? Your marriage is over because you cannot ever trust him again. This will not be the first time he has done this.
please don't say he is a great father, he is not, he is exploiting and abusing these childrens mother, cant' to or photos of the children ? The sites he is using are perverted, he will always need more and more depraved pictures. Go and look at the story of the French woman who's husband sexually abused her, it was in the media last week. That could be you soon.

Report him to the police.

If he sees the mother or his children as nothing more than a pornographic object, how do you think he will raise your children?

He will pass on his views to your children.

Get out and go to the police.

You could be waking down the street and a man recognise you. You could be followed or hassled or just smirked at.

Who would want that for their wife?

He is scum.

Read about the French woman who was drugged and taped all orchestrated by her husband. Your husband is sick. Leave him.

Don't drink anything he gives you.

Now he's been rumbled the next step will be to give you sleeping tablets.

Taped is raped.