Unusual bank withdrawals all to girls names

[Toryjane]

My husband does our online banking ,he was away last week and we had an issue with our bank so I logged in. I have found lots of withdrawals ,I know nothing off & they mostly have single girls names beside them ! Does anyone have any idea what they are ,my mind is racing thinking my husband has been cheating .I can’t find anything online ,I’ve posted a few examples but there at least 10 other girls names showing similar withdrawals .he already says I’m paranoid but I have caught him on dating sites ,messaging escorts in the past .I thought this behaviour was behind until I found these .

"Otherwise known as financial domination, a pay pig is a submissive person (generally speaking a man) who gets sexual gratification from being financially exploited. Being a pay pig can come in all sorts of forms. Sometimes it goes alongside other types of humiliation, with the added frission of paying the person who is inflicting it."

Its nearly always men paying the woman, its a power exchange thing. It really depends like if its a sugar daddy type arrangement its not so much sexual or fetish, paypigs like with these online models its more a submissive thing where he's paying a superior woman to take control of him including financially.
Sadly with the rise of social media there are lots of unscrupulous types who encourage homewrecking married submissives and some submissive get off on the danger of their wife finding out. The models doing that stuff clearly dont care either and its just a quick way to make money to some of them. Other models will ask about budgets or what the submissive can afford, but others actively encourage stupid spending, and the subs of course get off on the danger and giving up control. Its rife now with the web and sex work as an online candyshop for these women and sad men.

Its possible its peer-to-peer bitcoin purchases but strange that it would all be female names.

Do you know how he usually purchases crypto/bitcoin?

@Hawkins003@Fishingintheyemen

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Thank you both ladies, I honestly thought I was pretty blasé by now. Clearly not!

You know what it means...still.
You continue to be in denial.
You continue to allow yourself to be treated badly.

Why would you stay continue to stay with someone who is a serial cheater who's on dating and escort sites, who you have discovered paying other women for probably sex and maybe company ???

When will enough be enough??
When will there be a last straw??

Please stop allowing yourself to be treated badly. It's highly likely he's been this way all along and you've been aware the entire time.

Please divorce, and get into therapy asap

Also get a full panel.

These message boards are like those take a break type magazines with awful stories about what men do, and more realistic than romantic novels.

Is it is for escort or cam type services, why would they be stupid enough to use names on bank statements that can get the men into trouble?

Why would he be stupid enough to pay a 'working girl' out of his bank, when most of them take cash only as more discreet?

Maybe the same person:

Maria
Maria N
Maria N A
(Spanish surname customs)

It is pretty stupid i agree, although if op doesn't normally check bank statements he thought it would go unnoticed?
Or he's horny and isn't thinking!

Is your dh Lou Bega?

so on only fans type sites.on a live you have to keep upping the money.
she will say
"so whos going to pay me for this...
man adds
"oooh thankyou im doing this for you
"anyone will to pay more,extrea for this
"what does anyone want to see now,put your money in and ill choose you

disgusting revolting.yuk

this would explain why do many one after another transaction. they are literally paying to view and upping the anti or for what they want to see the woman do next.
either way this is loads of transaction that need confronting.

Exactly my thoughts so. Definitely looks like a paypig.

might be a subscriber to Only fans Op

It looks like fraudulent activity to me. I would contact the bank. Doubt he would be so obvious with this.

You’re jumping to conclusions.

LOL

Call up the bank ASAP because it could be fraud.

This has got to be a fake post

Maria and Marina are clearly his favourites. But how has he managed to make multiple transactions in one day. Also if he is paying cam girls and leaving the names on the transactions then either he is an idiot or he thinks you are one. Now you chose what you want it to be.

That’s cam girls

he already says I’m paranoid but I have caught him on dating sites ,messaging escorts in the past

You already know the answer. Open your eyes to what you're seeing. Sorry.

There’s not going to be a legitimate reason for this OP. They are hookers, escorts or cam girls. I hope you can find your self respect and leave.

I really wish the OP would come back and at least tell us what the bank has said.

I still don't believe anyone is that stupid, but people shock me with their stupidity every day.

Why should they care about these men?! They’re just scumbag punters.