Dating Thread 239 - spring fling

[Thisisworsethananticpated]

I couldn’t think of a decent as it’s been so fractious ! Will post rules shortly

exactly this @Breadcrumbsandbeef25 . No infidelity and no cheating and I think that’s enough
By the way Mr Ex knows Mila is meeting Mr Exex and knows him and knows they have been friends and have met all these years. Not since before COVID though

Really happy for you. Nothing happened with the other guy and he’s no one in your life. If this is playing in your head and making you obsess a lot you can discuss it with him but if this was absolutely nothing and at the beginning of your relationship I would just move on with life with Mr F and just relax

Worsy… where did you find this date? In the Donghard app?😂😂😂. Don’t worry, you know what you want more and more and know your boundaries. Next ! The important thing is that you are feeling better and trying to enjoy the new search

PinkIdentity

yes he’s my last donghard app iron !
apart from one poly who I’ve made friends with

then pause and onto hinge , no rush 😊

So not much to report from me
I was talking to someone on Hinge and then it dawned on me we work for the same company . So that was a non starter

I went out at the weekend and got drunk

Ended up messaging 2 old flames . Like an idiot

Being drunk and messaging ex … Hmm… I did that a few times when my ex and I broke up. I felt even worse the day after but we all have done it and we can never say it will not happen again
You’ve done the right thing not going ahead with the guy from same company
Upwards and onwards… it will get better

Excellent… relax in your break and onwards to Hinge

I think there's a gap in the market for an app that stops you doing shit like this when you're drunk. Like a breathalyser on your phone.

I've done this too many times to count.

I've deleted their numbers now to make it less easy.

Hangxiety is real 🤗🤗🤗

So that’s a “ thanks, but no thanks “ sent, just in time to be celibate for the rest of my life, grow my beard to my knees and never wash again 🧔‍♂️

Just say the truth - nobody is going to object to this

signed up for match around about 6 months ago I thought and so I was curious about when I would stop paying etc. only way of doing this was to log back in and check - this reactivated my account. While I was checking, a guy I’d had a thing with sent me a message asking if I was back on the market again. Put him straight and then deactivated my account again

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gah
I did a weak with covid texted my ex
woke up the next day and was like FUCK

thats why you have to delete their numbers
its the only way

I agree with deleting numbers…but I had my ex e mail when we broke up plus his work e mail…it was really difficult to restrain from contacting 😔… However, all the guys I dated on my 8 month stint were duly deleted and if any contacted me again…deleted again. Blocking keeps them on my phone, so better delete away

I'm going to delete MrNoEffort as I'm totally flogging a dead horse with that one
The other I have to work with unfortunately and it makes me feel better to still be on friendly terms

@hackmanson
I agree with the other posters…I would not really go for a profile with no pic. I did when I started dating and when guy sent pic…I did not like him at all. These things happen. Very recent, no filter full length and face pics is the way to go. People just have no time to deal with “whatifs” . If there’s no attraction there on pics…IRL date should not happen. You pick the guys you feel attracted to and viceversa. Let’s not feel hurt for not being what the guy we pick likes. There are plenty of other guys for whom we just look great. Please don’t feel bad about it and put it behind you. We have ALL suffered rejection from a guy we found suitable and attractive…but we have ALL also rejected a guy who thought we were suitable and attractive too.
Onwards and upwards…next !

Howlongy, I think you have had time to think about Mrs NoShow and out in perspective the things you didn’t like about her. I thought you really really fancied her but there were things you just didn’t agree with. Is it possible to have a frank conversation and discuss what each didn’t like when the relationship was on? Is there any way you still like her and she can understand what failed in your relationship? Sometimes people need to talk things loud as we really don’t know what we do wrongly or what irks our partner. Relationships are not perfect and there is always a givve and take and compromise to reached somehow. If you have already decided not to talk to her disregard my post.

NoDatingForOldMen

saw your update
so you still fancy her ? Or feel a bit meh about her after all that’s gone down

Just back from date
went quite well actually
he snuck a kiss and has asked for second date
why not ? He’s normal and ….foreign and …. Solvent
and minimal to no baggage

yes he gets second date

Get in 👍❤️

🥳 on the date @Thisisworsethananticpated . Mine went OK too - I've said I'd be up for seeing him again and he's said likewise so will wait and see if a second date comes off. Have a date pencilled on for Friday with a new iron too

You two are on fire!! ❤️

OH YESSSSSS 👍🏻… bring it on foreignsolventnobaggageman 😊😘

👍🏻🤗…excellent. Mothership awaits your comments. Enjoy everything Slothy

Slothmomma
yay for you too
I love a Monday night date
its so not pressurised

foreignsolventnobaggageman
PinkIdentity
😂😂😂

I'm back on the apps with a new photo which is getting a lot of attention, but I'm just not feeling very enthusiastic about it all.

I had a couple of dates with a lovely man last week. We got on well but on the second date he admitted that he wasn't over his last relationship. We agreed to stay in touch but I doubt I'll hear from him again. It was a sad story and he needs time to put it behind him but he's clearly very lonely.

So I moved on and arranged some dates. One at the weekend was so boring I needed 2 strong coffees to keep myself awake. He talked really slowly. I know all about his 3 cars and his tax returns.

I've also got a couple of dates for later this week. But now I just can't be bothered. The thought of getting dressed up, going out and chatting to a stranger just seems like hard work.

Both of them are younger and would only be for something casual but I just think they'll take one look at me and run the other way. The confidence I had last week has disappeared. Now I just want to stay on my sofa all evening.

One at the weekend was so boring I needed 2 strong coffees to keep myself awake. He talked really slowly. I know all about his 3 cars and his tax returns.

Oh blimey, was it me 😂