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Money Vanishing

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EllieBear20 · 05/02/2023 12:32

Hey everyone, feel like I need an outside perspective on this matter.

So my partner and I was in a good place. Then I notice an envelope of money has gone missing. There were thousands inside as it was my savings towards a future big purchase.

I have never blamed anyone in this apart from myself (thinking I have misplaced it but have now looked everywhere). So although I haven't accused my partner or anyone else of that matter, he is of course defending himself and now understandably there is a wedge between us. He says it's not like we can ignore it and go back to normal.

Now I feel I have the mystery of the money and a possible relationship breakdown.

What does this sound like to you? What can you do in this situation?

Tia x

OP posts:

CombatBarbie · 06/02/2023 16:49

Maybe learn to read too..... You asked if I evaded taxes and I said "nope"

taxpayer1 · 06/02/2023 19:19

CombatBarbie · 06/02/2023 16:49

Maybe learn to read too..... You asked if I evaded taxes and I said "nope"

Sure you don't.

CombatBarbie · 06/02/2023 19:33

taxpayer1 · 06/02/2023 19:19

Sure you don't.

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😂😂 Love to know how I evade tax on a gov pension..... God you are riled aren't you, have you just had a big tax bill or something????

billy1966 · 06/02/2023 19:33

ZeldaWillTellYourFortune · 05/02/2023 14:17

If he weren't feeling guilty he'd be acting helpful, not distant.

Absolutely this.

CombatBarbie · 06/02/2023 19:34

ZeldaWillTellYourFortune · 06/02/2023 14:41

Having a large cash stash is not in itself dodgy. I do and taxes have been paid on every bit of it. We were raised to always have plenty on hand for emergencies.

It's in a locked box in the loft.

Oooh you are a tax evasionist as well.... Hide from @taxpayer1

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