Is it unreasonable to come home from a night out at 4am when you're in a relationship? I did this twice last January and it causes major issues in our relationship and it was rocky until March. He then proposed in April and since then we have been planning the wedding and everything was fine until 3 weeks ago when I went out again and again came back around 4am as I lost track of time. When I got back we started arguing and he said he doesn't know if wants to marry me anymore, I thought he was saying this was out of anger but since then he refused to speak about it or continue planning it when I bring it up.
He's not very social and doesn't really go out, he just works, goes gym and spend time with his family, we have a joint weekend business that we run together. However he's not controlling and seems to only have a problem with me coming back late. He's 27 I'm 29. Any thoughts would be appreciated x
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I think he's calling off the wedding...
AppleBee321 · 03/01/2023 10:37
AppleBee321 · 03/01/2023 11:07
I'm just worried that everything will fall apart now, we've been together for nearly 6 years and he treats me good and is dependable. He said before in January that me staying out until 4am is a deal breaker for him. He said he trusts me but doesn't want his women in nightclubs as he knows that I'll be getting hit on.
girlmom21 · 03/01/2023 11:31
Did he know you were still with your ex when you slept together?
"His woman" gives me the ick though. You're not 'his', you're yours.
I wouldn't be bothered if DP was out late as long as he'd been courteous enough to let me know.
FleasNavidad · 03/01/2023 11:05
"He says he feels like I'm disrespecting him"
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AppleBee321 · 03/01/2023 11:07
I'm just worried that everything will fall apart now, we've been together for nearly 6 years and he treats me good and is dependable. He said before in January that me staying out until 4am is a deal breaker for him. He said he trusts me but doesn't want his women in nightclubs as he knows that I'll be getting hit on.
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